My parents-in-law were given a dowry apartment. When I came home from get off work and saw the luggage in the living room, I returned to my parents-in-law’s house feeling disheartened. What do I think

My parents-in-law were given a dowry apartment. When I came home from get off work and saw the luggage in the living room, I returned to my parents-in-law’s house feeling disheartened. What do I think?

When He Qing and I got married, my parents disagreed in every possible way. Because He Qing’s family was not in good condition, and my mother was afraid of being wronged by marrying her, so she said, “We live in the city, why do you have to marry in the countryside?” I met He Qing outside. I saw that He Qing was honest and responsible, and I felt that he was the person I would trust for life. So no matter what my mother said, I insisted on getting married. My mother was reluctant to make me feel wronged, so she said that I would marry him as a dowry. Give me a house to live in the city.

He Qing’s mother is a rural woman who likes to take advantage of small things. She likes it when she goes out to buy something. It’s already a lot of money, but she insists on being given more. People on the street are afraid of her. , He Qing’s mother, who was looking after the house, wanted to stay away. He Qing’s family didn’t give me much as a bride price when I got married. All the money was used to renovate the house. We left the house vacant for half a year and then we moved in. When we bought the house, we were named only me. Yes, even though He Qing's mother is someone like that, I still respect her very much.

After we got married, as my daughter-in-law, the first thing I did was to bring my mother-in-law to live in her new home for a while. When my mother-in-law first came here, she was so novel and felt that everything was different. For this reason, I went everywhere to get some gifts. I followed her around, but I didn’t dare to let my mother-in-law go shopping. I did it all myself. He Qing and I worked at home. He Qing was quite busy at work, and I was a little more leisurely than him. It was a pretty smooth life. .

But recently, my mother-in-law refused to be bored and said that she would bring her sister to live in the city. I thought it would be my husband's aunt who came. They are all relatives, and the aunt came. I entertained them well. I usually like to buy clothes. I thought it was all my own money and it was normal to buy some clothes. When my aunt saw me wearing new clothes, she felt it was so novel and said that if her daughter would wear them, she would definitely wear them. Very beautiful, my aunt said so, I have to say that next time you tell me what size your daughter wears before buying her one, the aunt said she has the same figure as me. After hearing what the aunt said, I want to be with my mother-in-law again. To show off in front of me, I gave the clothes to my aunt at that time.

But this happened later. I came home from get off work that day, and as soon as I entered the house, I saw a big box of luggage in the living room! I just said, aunt, what did you buy? You can take so many things back? My aunt said, I'm going back. Today, my mother-in-law and I were tidying up your wardrobe and saw a lot of extra clothes in your closet. Your mother-in-law said that you don't usually wear them, so she asked me to take them back to your cousin. Hearing what my aunt said, I walked into the room and saw that many of my clothes were gone. I pulled my mother-in-law and said, "Why don't you ask me anymore?"

My mother-in-law said that you don’t usually wear it, so you can just buy it after you have the money. Your aunt can take it back with you, and you can buy new ones. I was heartbroken when I heard that. I’m so frustrated, I’ll buy it for you just like you, but what’s the point of taking away my clothes without my permission? I saw my aunt packing her clothes happily. I didn’t even want to look at it. I took the bag and went out. When I returned to my parents’ house, I told my mother about the matter. My mother said, “Look, you asked me not to get married in the first place. Now you see.” Come out, your mother-in-law!

The more upset I get when I hear my mother nagging me in front of me. I don’t know what to do about this matter. After all, we are all relatives and it is hard to fall out. If I talk to He Qing, I will definitely remain silent. I don't feel sad thinking that my clothes were taken away by my aunt. What hurts is that my mother-in-law actually made the decision without asking me. Is this really good?