I met someone on a blind date for a month. I had a good impression on him, but I finally found him empty-handed. He didn't pay for me, and I don't like talking to him. As a result, one

Judging from your description, it is not that he has a problem, but that you have a problem.

First, you have a good impression on him, which shows that he is excellent (within your cognitive range)

Second, he doesn't like you, but he is very kind and doesn't want to hurt you, so he didn't refuse you to your face. Of course, he also refused your request, which is what you call "giving". There is no such thing as a "white wolf with empty gloves", because you are not a white wolf but a leek.

Third, you've only known each other for a month. How well do you know each other? What do you want him to do for you? What did you do for him? Remember, there is no reason for love, but love is pure.

Fourth, he deleted you and called you later. I think he is too kind. I guess he deleted you first, and he didn't feel manly enough. It's actually gilding the lily. It's just not necessary.

Fifth, as for your later dream, it is normal. Which girl is not in love?

Sixth, it is purely personal advice. Dress yourself up, from the inside out. As the saying goes: flowers have their own bee dishes, and it is difficult to leave no scenery in the mountains.