What if the husband doesn't want to communicate with his wife?

If your husband doesn't want to communicate with you, you should learn to say something useful and improve your charm.

Learn to say something useful.

If the other party is busy at work, then when one party asks a boring question, the other party will also feel bored. Therefore, you can use selective words to chat with your partner.

For example, when you ask your husband what his plans are for the weekend, you can directly ask, "Do you want to take your children fishing or go to the supermarket this weekend?" It may be better to let the husband make a choice directly. But some men with a high degree of cold violence will also answer with "whatever" at this time. At this time, the attitude of the woman is very important. Don't get angry at once, but say calmly: I want to consider your opinion. After all, most of your choices are right.

Guiding and praising her husband's choice in this way will make him feel more recognized and needed. If the woman just blames the man blindly, "you don't care about anything, what's the use of asking you?" It will only push a man further and further, and he won't want to have redundant communication with you.

Enhance your charm

Only by improving your charm and increasing your attraction to your husband can you better resolve the cold violence. Most men are actually animals that pursue freshness, so if you want your husband to take the initiative to chat with you, first of all, women should keep freshness and improve their charm so that men can't resist your communication.

Why men refuse to communicate.

1. Men sometimes refuse to communicate because they are not good at expression, and men are not as good as women in language ability. Women sometimes think that communication is to solve problems, but for men, facing women's expression will be redundant, and sometimes even annoying, so in order to avoid more contradictions, they will not express their opinions directly.

2. Women often need to communicate to release stress, but men don't recover as quickly as women, so in order to avoid quarreling with women and conflicts between them, they choose to escape. By not talking to confront you, men know that women are very emotional, and sometimes they quarrel because two people disagree, so they refuse to communicate directly.