In love, what practices will "achieve" the other half?

Both parties in love should trust each other, understand each other, support each other and tolerate each other, so that love will last and have results. But there are always some people who like to make love when they are in love, and finally make love disappear. Now let me explain what makes love "gone".

First, I often peek at each other's mobile phones.

I met a girl named Xiao Wu when I was working outside, and her boyfriend's name was Xiao Xu. Because Xiao Wu and Xiao Xu don't work in the same place, they mostly contact QQ by phone. Xiao Xu is very handsome, so he is very popular with girls, so Xiao Wu is also very at ease with him. Every time they meet, Xiao Wu will secretly look through Xiao Xu's mobile phone to see if he has chatted or made a phone call with other girls. If there is, she will investigate the relationship between Xiao Xu and that girl. Because of this, every time two people are very unhappy and finally break up. Xiao Xu felt that Xiao Wu didn't trust him. Xiao Wu felt that Xiao Xu was impatient, so he asked about his relationship with other girls and turned his face away. In fact, all the girls talking to Xiao Xu on the phone are colleagues, asking him about his work. Long-distance love is hard, why doubt it? More trust may lead to different results.

Second, the relationship with the opposite sex is ambiguous.

Xiao Deng and Fan Xiao are lovers. They work in different workshops on the same floor of the same building. Xiao Deng looks ordinary, not handsome or ugly, but he is sincere. Maybe that's why the girls in their workshop like him. Fan Xiao and I share a workshop, and we often go to Xiao Deng's workshop to help, because the owner of our two workshops is the same person. We all know many people in Xiao Deng's workshop, and they also know that Fan Xiao is Xiao Deng's girlfriend, so every time we go to their workshop, someone always makes jokes. But there is a female manager in Xiao Deng's workshop who also likes Xiao Deng. Although it is not clear, everyone can see it. Xiao Deng is also very good at managing that woman and feels that there is a problem between them. Therefore, Fan Xiao always worried that Xiao Deng would not want her, but Xiao Deng kept an affair with the female manager because he didn't know Fan Xiao's worry, so that Fan Xiao finally couldn't stand it and broke up. Love is "selfish" in essence. Everyone wants the other person to have only himself in his eyes and treat all other members of the opposite sex as air. At this time, if one party has an ambiguous relationship with the other, the relationship will naturally break down.

Third, step on one more boat

Sun Xiao's education is not bad, and his income is high. Tang Xiao's education is not high, his salary is average, and he looks delicate. That's it. Two people are lovers. Sun Xiao is more talkative, so she is very popular with girls. Sun Xiao and Tang Xiao live outside together. One day, Tang Xiao went to work, and Sun Xiao stayed at home that day. At noon, Tang Xiao wanted to go back and cook for Sun Xiao, because she was afraid that Sun Xiao had no food, but she didn't tell Sun Xiao that she wanted to give him a surprise. When she got home and opened the door, she found a pair of high heels for girls. She felt a panic, so she walked slowly to the door of the room and opened it. She saw Sun Xiao sleeping in their bed with a girl she didn't know. Her mind was blank at that time, and tears could not help falling. The plate in his hand fell to the ground, which woke Sun Xiao. Sun Xiao quickly put on her clothes, woke up the girl and let her get dressed and go. When the girl dressed up and walked beside Tang Xiao, she whispered to her, "Sun Xiao is a playboy. He is more than just a female companion." When the girl left, Sun Xiao explained to Tang Xiao that the girl seduced him first, and he also promised that it wouldn't happen again. Tang Xiao really likes Sun Xiao, so he chooses to forgive him. Facts have proved that dogs can't change and eat shit. Not long after, Sun Xiao cheated Tang Xiao again, but he was afraid to stay at home, so he registered outside. Unexpectedly, it was seen by a good friend of Tang Xiao. She immediately called Tang Xiao, and Tang Xiao asked for leave to catch the rape case. Tang Xiao didn't forgive Sun Xiao this time. She felt that Sun Xiao was a man of bad faith, and what he said was no longer credible. In this way, Sun Xiao lost her love.

Love is a matter of two people, and there is no room for a third person! Therefore, lovers must admit, trust, understand and tolerate each other, and regard each other as the only one, so that love will have a good result.