What information can be saved by being blacked out by your girlfriend? Can being blacked out by your girlfriend be redeemed?

Xiao Liu quarreled with his girlfriend the other day because of building a house in his hometown. Xiao Liu doesn't think it necessary to build a house in his hometown. After all, he is just an ordinary office worker with a low salary and little time to go back to his hometown. It's a waste to go back only occasionally. But my girlfriend doesn't think so. She has always wanted to have a new house in her hometown, and she can invite three or five friends to visit her hometown on weekends. So the two sides broke up because of this, and even finally Xiao Liu's girlfriend dumped Xiao Liu Hei.

In the process of love, in most cases, both sides can be affectionate and always eager to be with each other. Even so, in this process, there will be disputes or even quarrels because of different views. At the end of the quarrel, the woman is likely to blacken or delete the man's contact information. In this case, as a boyfriend, what should I do to save my girlfriend?

First, save the steps of being hacked by your girlfriend and calmly find the reason.

You have to believe that it takes two slaps, so when you are hacked by your girlfriend, you should calm down and find the reason from yourself. In this process, don't have any idea that you are right, unless you don't want to get your girlfriend back, and you want to lose your girlfriend, that is, break up. You can think about whether your attitude is incorrect, whether your point of view is incorrect, whether your tone of voice is bad, and so on. As long as you observe carefully, you can certainly find that there are many things wrong with yourself.

Step 2: Prepare gifts.

When you find your own reason, don't go to the door directly, because empty-handed means insincerity. Therefore, before you come to find each other, you must prepare gifts. You can think about whether your girlfriend wants to buy anything in particular recently, or something that she has been longing for for for a long time. Then you can start buying gifts from these aspects. If you really can't figure out what to buy, it's easy. You can buy a bunch of flowers at a nearby flower shop. When buying flowers, you should pay attention to whether the other party is allergic to some flowers and whether they are sensitive to the taste of some flowers. Otherwise, the bouquet of flowers you sent out will not only fail to achieve the expected effect, but will make the other party more angry. If it is serious, it will only say goodbye to you.

Step 3: Apologize in person.

Maybe you can contact each other through girlfriends or family members and solve your problems through the intervention of intermediaries, but please remember that if you want the other person to feel that you really apologize to her, you must apologize in person at the place where the other person lives, especially if you don't choose to apologize at the place where the other person works. After all, people look good. If you apologize at her workplace, it will make her laugh in front of her colleagues. The office gossip is terrible.

Boyfriend and girlfriend can not quarrel without quarreling. After all, the cost of quarreling is very high, which will not only cost you money, but also affect your feelings. Therefore, as a boyfriend, we should pay more attention to our words and deeds and understand and tolerate each other. As long as it's not a matter of principle, it's okay to make the other person happy. As long as your girlfriend is happy, your relationship will naturally get better and better, and it will be easier to get into marriage.