How do I want to pick up girls? Thank you.

what I'm talking about here is what I should do in the early stage of picking up girls, that is, when I don't get it. 1. It is forbidden to confess too early, especially for some men who are more pure. If they like a girl, they will devote themselves wholeheartedly. I am eager to express my feelings, or give hints prematurely. The result is basically: SMS does not return, QQ does not return, and the appointment cannot be made. And it's hard to fix it. Therefore, I suggest that you go out about 1 times, and if you come out more than 6 times, you will take the initiative to send you short messages and pay attention to your life. Or after holding hands, it is better to confess. 2. It is forbidden to compliment the woman. Because some men like each other, they lose no time to compliment each other on their looks, clothes and so on. Just ignored, the more compliments a girl gives, the more she thinks you can't live without it, and her self-confidence will swell. At the same time, I will play with you in my palm. Therefore, it is not easy to compliment the woman. On the contrary, we should make fun of each other's shortcomings. Let her feel that she is not perfect in my heart. You wouldn't be so self-righteous. 3. Don't talk about your career or work disappointments, because she is not the one who can comfort you when you are lost. When you talk about the failure of your career, you are actually showing weakness and showing your incompetence. At this time, she can't be the object of your talk. You can talk about some interesting topics about your career. 4. It is forbidden to be too serious or too gentle. Because girls generally like men who know how to be active, honest and humorous. If you are too serious or elegant, then girls will think you have no mood. Not romantic enough. By all means, the words in the text message at first must not be too fancy, even if the writing is very good. 5, it is forbidden to chase too fast, chasing too fast, making people feel overwhelmed. And fully expose their eagerness to get her intention. Often she will shrink back. Generally speaking, keep a text message a day. Then it is better to meet twice a week. 6. It is forbidden to act blindly without knowing the girl. It is actually very important to know the other person. Her hobbies, personality, living environment, friends around her, etc. must be understood. This can prescribe the right medicine. Do what you want, so that two people can get along more easily and will not be ice-cold. 7. It is forbidden to go to the girl's unit or intercept on the road. I have done such a stupid thing. Because the relationship is uncertain, she doesn't want you to appear in front of her colleagues. Your appearance makes her very embarrassed. Colleagues may have some gossip afterwards. At the same time, you can't intercept it on the road. Because then she would be at a loss. 8. It is forbidden to show off your strength too much. Some men boast in front of girls because they think they have money. Although there are no girls who don't love money these days, boasting too much will make the other person feel uncomfortable. I think you are not stable enough, and I think, "If you have money, should I be good with you?" Especially for some lofty girls, we must pay attention to this. 9. It is forbidden to pay insufficient attention to girls' friends. It is also a good idea to start with friends around girls. Because women often lack opinions. I am willing to listen to my sister's opinion. Therefore, it is actually a good way for you to please her friends first. 1. It is forbidden to go to the same place every date. At first, there were more tea and meals, but you can't eat and drink tea every time. For example, go to the movies, go boating in the park, take a short trip, go shopping, etc., and always change the place and content of the appointment. This will give each other more freshness. 11. It is forbidden to give up easily. Although sometimes things that are not predestined cannot be forced, things that are easily obtained are not reliable. Some girls are still slow to heat up. It's not terrible to have some setbacks at first. If you persist a little, you may get the other person's heart. I once chased a girl for 2 years without success, but generally speaking, 3 months to 1 year should be insisted. Even if you give up, don't say it in front of the girl, because in the future, when she thinks you are good, she can kill her. Don't say "a good horse doesn't eat grass back". In fact, there are many people who eat grass back and grass beside their nests these days, and many of them are happy in the future. Hahaha ~ ~ I have talked about five girlfriends, and I have shared many years of experience. I just married my last girlfriend this year, and I am very happy! I believe you can also find your happiness!