How to chase a girl with a heavy heart

First, you should take the initiative.

Think about the consequences of everything.

Confession is actually an immature performance. The normal order should be: what happens after your girlfriend, not what happens to me after you become my girlfriend.

I saw such an example on the Internet. I don't know if it's true, but it's still worth saying.

A master chases a girl, which is very successful. Finally, both of them are going to have sex. The woman was in a hurry and asked the man, why don't you let me be your girlfriend?

Most girls like a responsible man. Women attach great importance to first impressions. Grow up and think about which woman will fall in love with a naive person.

Mature men will face their responsibilities bravely.

Take the initiative to be alone with her, but keep it moderate. The girl is timid, don't scare her.

Steady and independent, do everything in a panic without chaos. Have the temperament and grace of a man, have compassion, especially small animals. (Women like such men)

You should also have confidence. You can't do anything well without confidence. When you encounter something worrying in your life, you should be optimistic (provided that she knows you have met it) and let her see how strong you are.

Don't say "I love you" to her often, too many meanings will spoil it, and don't say "forever".

Because many women don't believe in eternity. My girlfriend does.

If you are sincere and do it with your heart, then she will come to you.

If she's worth chasing, then take action.

I found you some ways to chase girls and see if it helps you.

The more times you touch a woman, the easier it is for her to fall in love with you >

After touching a woman, you can enhance each other's intimacy (physical contact is the best way to get closer to a woman, but how to touch a woman without trace requires excellent skills). It would be perfect if I had a chance to touch her knees or hands. But if you meet on the first date, don't do this. In coffee shops and restaurants, you'd better choose juxtaposed positions (that's how opportunities are made).

In terms of women's body, the left side (roughly the left side, yes, but for left-handed women, it is the right side) is a non-daily area, which is easy to feel itchy, while the left side of the breast is a sensitive area for women. So, it's best to have a woman on your left. If you hold her from the left rear with your left hand, she will fall into your arms. Then look forward to further good results.

& lt the difference between a popular man and an unpopular man >

Popular men always keep a wide distance from undesirable women, but for eager women, there are ways to keep her around. Women are bound to be curious about men who attract attention (curiosity is fatal to women), and this curiosity can be used in interesting conversations and fresh intelligence information. If you are unpopular, even if the other person is curious, I can only try my best to escape as soon as I see you. Unpopular men are always lonely around me. Whenever I want to liven up the atmosphere, I want to be a popular person. I must have self-confidence (self-confidence and not arrogance are the only way to chase my girlfriend, remember! ), and good interpersonal relationships, I believe that in this way, a good girl will belong to you.

& lt from friends to lovers >

I finally got a chance to ask her out, but I didn't know what gift to bring. It's best to bring a flower on this occasion, so that you may pin it on her chest (giving gifts is knowledge, but it is unwise to insert flowers on the chest of an "unfamiliar" woman) or send it, which naturally forms an opportunity to kiss each other. As for dining, you may have to be careful the first time, but you can choose after the second time.

& lt Give yourself a chance to step into her inner world >

After the other person becomes your girlfriend, many people worry that their relationship will not go on. In fact, if these people don't care too much, they will often let the opportunity to improve their mood slip away quietly. In the female ethnic group, they attach great importance to the boys who want to help women with their coats, because at the moment of taking off their coats, if there are men present, it is easy for women to have the illusion of lovers. When riding in the car, if you can say: put the forgotten things on my side, it will bring you closer to her. But if these behaviors are not used properly, they will be self-defeating.

& lt create an accident >

Mystery is very important to women. Men who meet by chance are more attractive to women than men introduced by others or known in the workplace. If this accidental situation happens repeatedly, women will be convinced of the existence of fate. But can they create a second chance? In fact, this is something that everyone can do. If you want to meet a girl anyway, you can check her commuting route and other related matters in detail, so it will be much easier to create a second chance. It is much easier to accept that women are successful men. Women always pay attention to the essential existence of men's true colors, so when they understand that men's true colors are not their favorite types, most people will take the opportunity to escape. It's better to make some changes if it can meet her preferences. In addition, excellent memory is a characteristic of women. Some men forget a sentence, but women remember it clearly, so you must remember everything you said to her.

& lt What kind of gift does she want? & gt

In terms of gifts, if a girlfriend likes small things, she can give a ring, a watch or flowers. If she likes big items, you can send big dolls or large and numerous bouquets to win her favor. Generally speaking, people who like small items are mostly mature people, because these items can be placed within their control. So most women who like big dolls are still a little childish, so she may haunt her boyfriend when she is happy. However, it is also possible that after she is tired of hugging dolls, she doesn't want to hug you anymore. In this respect, women who like small items seem to be more likely to cultivate long-term love, although it will cost you more.

& lt If you give in to a woman's words or attitude too much, you are sure to fail >

Women are cute and scary animals. The main difference between men and women is that they both have two kinds of personalities, which are quite soft on the surface, but they can be said to be vicious inside. Men who are not good at pursuing women easily succumb to this horror. Men who are not used to facing such women will succumb to women's words or smiles and become indecisive.

& lt How to pursue a more intellectual and emotional girl? & gt

Generally speaking, women can be divided into two types. One is infatuation with men who can put themselves above others, and the other is infatuation with men who always belittle themselves. Men who are not good at understanding women always beautify women, so it is difficult to put forward objective opinions on the point. On the contrary, if they are good at communicating with women, even if they say something unpleasant, they will be flushed and breathless, and there will often be some good things around them.

& lt Sometimes you might as well spoil her >

Of course, it is best for men and women to have the same personality. There are often two people in the world who are called "a match made in heaven". These people had many similarities before they met. When they live together,

There are also many similarities. In fact, if men and women can complement each other, it is also a good combination. Women who are bosses often show their strong side to others in order to prove their income. If your date is like this, you might as well find a chance to act like a spoiled brat in turn. For a woman with strong self-esteem, it is easier to catch her heart. What these girls say and do are basically the same. The most important thing is to satisfy her self-esteem, so sometimes you might as well play the slave of love. When you get along with these women, as long as you remember the principle of never disagreeing with her, it will be unexpectedly easy to pursue them and will be an ideal object.

& lt show your gentleness and thoughtfulness >

Do this gentle behavior, don't be too deliberate, you should seize the opportunity and do it with a calm mind. It is very important if you can show a kind smile to dogs and kittens, or show love to flowers and grass. At this time, she will feel that you have such feelings for these little things, and your feelings for women are beyond doubt. At the same time, she will also make sure that you are a very gentle man. In this way, you are half successful.

& lt The sea and sunset are the best combination to seduce women >

Women have longed for water since ancient times (yes, the best place for dating is the sunset by the sea! ! )。 In most romantic songs, it seems that the sun is not set at noon, and there is no one who is not immersed in sadness because he sees the sunset at the seaside. A relationship must be immersed in sadness first, and only when you feel a person's loneliness can you appreciate the taste of feelings. If a woman agrees with this scene, she will agree with this emotion.

& lt Give her dreams in communication >

Some people think that girls are easy to be cheated, but is this really the case? In fact, even if a girl is cheated, she will have a willing idea. So when a well-dressed man appears in front of them, these girls are likely to gamble their luck according to their own wishes. So the most important thing is that you should give each other some dreams. At first, you can't change your attitude or commitment to approach her. To be clear, you should give her dreams. If you keep her dream, your relationship will be deeper.

If your girlfriend yawns lightly on a date, it's not that she is tired, but that you say she is tired of you (be careful in this short period, it's important to know whether a woman is impatient with you), or that she slightly signals you to pay attention to the time on your watch, indicating that she already wants to go home. If her thoughts are strong, then she may show that she always looks around at your behavior. At this time, you probably don't exist in her heart. If a woman is with the man she loves, she often doesn't care about her surroundings. If these women are self-centered, it's not too much, but if women look to other things, you should be prepared to end this relationship at any time. If women say "men are really annoying", many women like to add the word "annoying" after a sentence. But in this usage, there are two different meanings that deserve attention. When "hate" is generally used to express it, if it is not very close, it often appears in men and women who are very close. Then the other person may give you a contemptuous look in silence, so if a woman is willing to talk to you, your intimacy will increase in comparison. In order to increase intimacy, you have to show her your masculinity as soon as possible, but if a man makes a woman feel unclean, it is likely to make her flinch.

& lt Observe women by talking & gt；;

What kind of person is she? If she is a person who can talk nonstop, it is easy to make people wonder what is going on in her mind. Humans always want others to take a look at themselves, so both men and women always arrange their appearance properly, but their appearance is not complete enough, so through dialogue, others can know themselves better. Women whose voices change quickly, they will express their inner excitement with their voices, and speaking softly is also a type that can make people enjoy it. However, you should pay special attention to women who talk like neighbors. She may be extremely jealous, on the contrary, a woman with low sound quality may be more masculine.

& lt Women who often listen to walkman are more self-centered & gt；;

Recently, you can often see some women wearing walkman on the bus. In fact, some of these women who use headphones to suppress their hearing are actually trying to escape loneliness and immerse themselves in the music world. However, some women are willing to take off their headphones for men, but this requires considerable vigilance, because this is one of the types of self-centered people.

& lt Women are usually attracted by [first impressions].

It has been reported that women should be careful about their first impression of (-), and many people died at this point! ! ) Men with beards have a higher opinion than men without beards. Appearance, posture and clothes are all important factors that determine the first impression. If these first impressions are not brought into play, it will be bad. Usually, the first impression given by appearance is deeply embedded in the other person's heart, so the first impression is very important. If a man can pay attention to his attitude towards clothes at ordinary times, he will win in love.

How to chase the existing flower of the Lord?

Once a girl has a boyfriend and makes a promise, she will not easily accept the love of others.

But what should you do if you like a girl with a boyfriend?

Don't rush to have sex, you will definitely be rejected. Because she doesn't know you very well, she won't give up her existing love for you. Be kind to her, care for her in every possible way, appear as a friend of the opposite sex and play with her. Over time, she will think you are a good boy. Don't let her have the opportunity to refuse you, and don't make any demands on her. Let her know you have something for her.

Then, when your relationship (friendship with her) develops to a certain stage, find an opportunity (when she just fell out with her boyfriend). Write or talk implicitly.

She may refuse at this time, but if you find that she doesn't hate you, do it. She will choose you over her ex-boyfriend.

This is the whole process, but before that, you must compare yourself with her boyfriend. If you feel that you are not as good as the above method, it is invalid.

Small means of chasing girls

(1) Chasing girls who are silent and arrogant.

At first glance, this seems to be tricky. In fact, these girls are indifferent in appearance and often fanatical in heart. They generally like boys who are a little wild. If you are the kind of gentle boy, with long differences and little possibility, you'd better choose another beautiful woman. If people say, "That's cool!" Then you hope big! If your first invitation is not rejected, then you must not miss the opportunity! They may be extremely careless about you at first. Don't be discouraged at this time.

Be sure to persist, even if it is repeated. Watching movies, dancing, skating and going to her usual study room are all good strategies. Be sure to find more opportunities to express yourself, a lot (of course, Iloveyou will save it for the last time, hehe) ... For this type of girl, your true feelings are very attractive.

This kind of girl usually has to chase for a long time. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems best not to start. So as not to waste ... hehe. However, after catching up, she will generally be dead set, and you will be on cloud nine and feel that you are the happiest BF in the world! Ha ha.

(2) Girls who pursue romantic fantasies

If you really like such a girl, let me remind you first-you are going to taste the ups and downs! This kind of girl seems to pursue spirit more than material, but in fact it is just the opposite. Romance needs money to build. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider. Because she likes romantic things, flowers and chocolates, you can touch her heartstrings most by giving more gifts.

If you want to catch up with this kind of girl, don't be stingy with your little money. Besides the moon in the sky, there are other things on the ground (what? As long as she wants it, you should try your best to get it without hesitation. Usually roses and snacks are more subtle ... in short, if you want to chase such girls, you must cultivate your mind-reading ability. Don't forget to bribe the roommates of the girls around you.

They will tell you a lot of useful information. And you must think more about your dress, and don't be rustic all day. After catching up with a girl, you can safely show your true colors, because in her eyes, you are no longer rustic. Haha)

If you want to play with her, you should also go to more romantic places, such as spring outing, dancing and watching love stories ... she will gradually be inseparable from your care, haha! Although such a girl costs you a lot of money, it will also bring you a lot of wonderful fun. As long as you really like it, you can still live happily.

(3) Chasing tender and considerate girls

This kind of girl is dedicated. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and amiable, and let you feel the warmth and reliability of love. If you can catch up with this kind of girl, theoretically you will become the most comfortable man. This kind of girl should be easy to chase (also suitable for all kinds of boys), as long as she doesn't hate you, you deserve her. Now let's discuss the means.

First of all, you should pay more attention to her in life and study. She doesn't need any material things, but needs a heartfelt concern to appear in front of her when she needs help. (Reminder, you must observe more at ordinary times to find a good opportunity to start. Of course, if you are a romantic, it is foolproof to send flowers and gifts on holidays.

At first, you can send something friendly, and when you feel you can express it (for example, she looks at you differently from others or seems a little overwhelmed in front of you), you can send roses! If you don't want to be so extravagant, you can reveal some in the chat after self-study on weekdays. When the time is right, you will suddenly say something like "It feels good to be with you". If she doesn't hide, you can strike while the iron is hot and say what you have long wanted to say. The best time is at night: people's defense ability is weak at night. If she starts to avoid, don't force her, you can care silently until she is moved.

BTW: If you don't have much contact with her at ordinary times, you will have a goal when she doesn't know you. You can pretend to meet her by chance through friends like her, and then deepen your impression through several "encounters" in the same study room, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl is honest and safe to catch up with. Actually, it depends on someone. Some people won't let her leave you in an emergency. If you can't, you should always write and call.

(4) Chasing lively and lovely girls

This kind of girl seems to like a lot of people. Moreover, in the new environment, boyfriends are often the first. Not because they are easy to chase, but because they often have to take the initiative. If you like this kind of girl, if she likes you, it will be easy. Get in touch with her more, occasionally show your affection for her, and she will be close to your goal at the same time. If she doesn't like you (worse, she likes another person), don't lose heart. As long as you still have a chance, you should fight for it (of course, you are just so-so to her, so you don't have to). You can first exist in the form of friendship with her and try to cultivate a hobby similar to her. In the meantime, your humor and openness are very important, so that she can still think of you on her way back. If the person she likes is not interested in her, then you can take your time until she takes the initiative to you.

At this time, you can take obvious strategies to make her really become your girlfriend. If she and he like each other, if you think she deserves to be accused of stealing others' love, you can give them a final blow before they talk to each other. At this time, opportunities are very important.

You should observe carefully. When they have conflicts and misunderstandings, take advantage of them (it doesn't seem very ... haha) and arrive first. Victory may well belong to you in the end! (Generally, girls won't have other ideas after catching up, haha. ) This kind of girl may be liked by unsuspecting people after having BF, so you should tell "Please! She belongs to me! " The result should be optimistic.

First, what kind of first impression should I leave on mm (time: I just started to contact mm)

1, I think the most important thing is to let mm see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make mm feel that you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell mm that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility. It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed. Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

Step 4 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact mm (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others. Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat, Andy Lau or kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you come out resolutely from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).

Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.

Also, don't take out the ambition of "you must marry". It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo. As the saying goes, "something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor. If you want to show your sincerity, please invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". On a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand; In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.

I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "

So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that he is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.

1, not every mm can catch up.

A good girl will always be chased by many people, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing mm, you can't catch up with either twin.

Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who has never graduated from primary school is kind to you, earning 600 yuan a month and buying you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft), and willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing mm is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser"