My husband's lover calls and sends messages every day. What should I do?

She began to take the initiative, indicating that she was also very tired and didn't want to spend it endlessly. So she wants to break your will and persistence through stimulation, and finally let you choose to give up. This is her purpose.

At this point in marriage, there is nothing wrong with patience, but it is impossible to solve the fundamental problem by procrastinating blindly. Silence should be based on purposeful silence, and there should be positive dynamics in silence. Like your marriage, it's actually been three years. Even if she leaves, your relationship is on the verge of breaking up. The distance between them is far away, leaving almost no tacit understanding and trust.

If you don't divorce your son, first of all, you need to know why you don't divorce, why your children need a home, and what this home is. It's not that we won't divorce, but the form of marriage is home. Parents' emotional confusion and bad family relations will also have a bad influence on children, because children need a home, but they need to imitate their parents' life behavior, and this home has warm and positive thoughts, which will affect his personality formation. For your family, it has actually lost its role. If you don't want to divorce, you should correctly establish the relationship between husband and wife, take the initiative to repair the relationship, and strengthen the feelings within the marriage, so as to truly and completely disintegrate her.

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