Parents always want you to give them the money you earn, all kinds of hints. What would you say?

I understand your troubles very much! As the saying goes: children come to ask for debts in this life! In fact, on the contrary, parents are in debt.

at the age of 23, you need to share the mortgage for your family and take care of your brother's expenses, which is very rare. As a daughter, you understand the hard work of your parents and are willing to pay for this family. Moreover, it's reasonable that the rest of the money as a young girl will be spent on traveling to dress up, but your parents don't understand you. You must be in pain!

Your parents are actually quite young, but no matter how young they are, they belong to the previous generation. Their thoughts are relatively conservative and they are not exposed to anything new. So they will think it's a waste of money for you to travel and dress up. They want you to give them all your money, perhaps because they are afraid that you will spend money indiscriminately. In this case, I can only understand you, but not your parents. Because, I am as distressed as your situation.

when I was a child, my family was relatively rich. However, my parents never give me pocket money or buy me extra things. When I grow up, they have to control my own salary. I have no choice but to resist. Because in any case, they will not understand, only to show their hearts with practical actions. When I went out to take my first job, I went to take my driver's license by installment. My parents are very opposed to it. Every time I call, I have to say that I am wasting money. I will talk about it all the time when I go home on holidays. My heart is really painful. What makes me even more miserable is that I have to give a sum of money to my family every year during the Spring Festival. It is not a hint, but I want it. When I first worked, my salary was 15 yuan, excluding 5 yuan for driving test, and I spent 55 yuan on orthodontics myself. I haven't bought clothes, traveled or eaten a delicious meal outside all year round. All of them were spent eating bad food in the unit canteen. My parents asked me for 5 yuan during the Spring Festival. Of course, money is for my family, but asking directly is like cutting my flesh. This is the reality. I work hard all the year round, but I don't enjoy it. On the contrary, my pockets are empty like moonlight clan.

this situation lasted for three years. I was uncomfortable in the first few years when I first came out of society, and I didn't have any savings at the end of each year. I couldn't stand it. I started to resist! I switched to a better-paid company, and I began to hide my income from my family, including the year-end bonus. Hee hee! Since then, I have lived happily, traveling when I have time, and going out to eat and drink. Of course, every year, I will give half of the year-end bonus to my family, and pretend to be poor and say that this is the savings for one year. This is also a way out.

from then on, my job and money are in good weather! Actually, you can have a try. Hee hee ~