Reflection on my failure in two consecutive interviews

As you can imagine, at the time of writing this article, I have failed in the interview twice in a row, both for my own reasons and for other reasons. Then I summed up my mistakes and avoided the recurrence of the tragedy.

1.

Determined to be economically independent, I seldom ask my family for living expenses after I go to college. First, because of the large family expenses, the capital turnover is not enough; Second, because I have a bad relationship with my parents. Accurately speaking, the relationship between mom and dad is not good, so we insist on living separately, not asking each other, not disturbing each other, and the relationship between husband and wife exists in name only. Therefore, in a vicious circle, there is little care and love for me, and there is little contact between them. Only on holidays. It's really melodramatic, after all, it's not a child anymore.

I remember when I was a sophomore, I wanted to apply for the job of counselor dietitian, but the part-time job just covered my living expenses and other small expenses. The registration fee of 1000 yuan was really beyond my ability.

Then, I sent a message to my dad. I said, dad, I want to take the exam as a counselor and nutritionist. Registration fee 1000, I have no money. Dad said, I just called XX(XX is my sister) 1000, and you asked your mother to go. I said, oh, and then nothing happened.

At that moment, I was suddenly a little disappointed, but I got used to it. Maybe you will say that parents should not be asked to pay for their dreams, which is true. I have nothing to say, and I don't want to blame anything, but since then, I have never asked my parents for money.

I started my part-time career, and it went smoothly until last Wednesday.

My classmates introduced me to a tutor, which should be said to be homework tutoring and one-to-many tutoring for primary school students. Then I added the QQ of Mr. Wang, the person in charge, and briefly told him about my situation. Then he asked me to come with my classmates at five o'clock in the afternoon and interview me in Xinghuwan. I was thinking, anyway, I was with my classmate and she knew the way, so I followed her.

Unfortunately, a tutorial class suddenly lacked a tutor that day, and Teacher Wang called my classmate in advance. Of course, I didn't know about it at that time, and my classmates didn't tell me.

I went to call my classmate at four o'clock in the afternoon, and her roommate said that she had already left. I was confused. I called her, and I said, your sister, why didn't you call me when you left, how to get there, and which bus to take? Hey, hey, she apologized to her and said, take bus No.67 and get off at the terminal, and then I'll pick you up.

After hanging up the phone, I set off from school with my schoolbag on my back. Arriving at the school gate, bus No.67 just came. I put in a coin and got on the bus without thinking. About half an hour later, I found something was wrong (during which my classmates called me to make sure I was in the car), because the farther I went out of the city, it didn't look like there was a counseling institution at all. Then I asked the driver, is this the right way to Xinghuwan? The driver said I was sitting backwards, so I got off and sat backwards.

I feel as if I had been struck by lightning.

There is no way, get off and get ready to go back. As a result, the place is too far away, and the distance between the two bus stops is a bit far. It took about twenty minutes to reach the last stop. Nima, I definitely didn't read the almanac when I went out today, I thought.

At this time, it was already five o'clock. During this time, I sent a short message to Mr. Wang. I respectfully say, Miss Wang, I'm very sorry. I took the wrong bus. It may be a little late to reach Xinghuwan. Can I still go to the interview tonight? He said to come over and I'll call back later, okay? I also called my classmate and told her that I took the wrong bus and now I'm going back.

When we arrived at Xinghu Bay, it was already past six o'clock. Open the phone and see, it's terrible! Teacher Wang asked me at 17: 23 and 17: 42 respectively, where have I been? Where are you? I will call him back. I just got off the bus. So I called my classmate and asked her to pick me up quickly, waiting for more than ten minutes.

I saw her in front of the supermarket, and she said, are you stupid? Then we hurried there and really galloped. She said she was busy, and Miss Wang arranged a remedial class for me. I'm stupid again. I said he didn't tell me.

When I arrived at the office door, I was out of breath. Then I saw a boy with glasses, not tall or handsome, slightly bookish. He confessed something to my classmate face to face. I think he should be Mr. Wang.

After talking with his classmates, he turned to look at me. I immediately looked him in the eye with a smile and said, Hello, Miss Wang. I'm terribly sorry I'm late. I'm here to interview XXX, the tutor's student.

He really said with a serious face, why didn't you answer when I asked you? Why didn't you reply when I sent you a message? Do you know that you caused a serious teaching accident today? Don't you have any apologies? I won't give you an interview today, so go.

He never said a word to me, and then he turned and left, leaving me with a cool back. I haven't recovered from my running just now, and I'm beginning to feel stupid again. What serious teaching accident have I caused? I'm not sorry, okay? Didn't I apologize? Didn't I explain to him why I was late? Didn't he ask me to come over?

But Mr. Wang didn't answer these questions for me. I was as stupid as a fool. It took me a few minutes to react, so I made a decision: turn around, hold my head high and walk away without looking back.

That night, my classmate came back to me and said the first sentence: XX, I want to apologize to you. I feel sorry for you. Invite you to dinner when I get paid. I also want to ask why she didn't tell me when she left, but I think it's meaningless. After all, it is not her fault.

But I accepted her apology. After all, I can't get moral compensation, and material compensation is good.

2.

Then this interview is not really a failure. As far as I'm concerned, it didn't work out and it was a failure at first. Now listen to me in detail.

At 10 o'clock on Friday morning, Wu sent a message in the class group: Are there any girls willing to work part-time on Saturday and Sunday, 70 yuan a day? Send me a message if you have any.

I saw the news and immediately sent her a message: Is your part-time job a promotion? After waiting for a while, she didn't reply (in fact, she didn't receive this message), so I went to other things.

This afternoon, I asked her about part-time jobs in class. She said it was a promotion in the supermarket and asked me if I wanted to go. I said yes, where is it? She said it was in Wu Shang Supermarket on Dongyue Road, and then she sent me a phone number to call, saying that I was her part-time job introducing the past.

I called the man after class and told him my information. He said to arrange it for me tonight and wait for his call.

I got a call from him at about 0/0 in the evening/kloc. He said that if I have time on the weekend, I will go tomorrow, and I can't be late at eight o'clock the first morning. He also said that if I had anything unclear, I could ask him and my classmates, and then hung up.

On Saturday, I got up early in the morning, brushed my teeth, washed my face and put on light makeup. By the way, I left after breakfast.

I'll call him at the gate of the supermarket around 7: 40. I said I had arrived at the gate of Wu Shang supermarket. Is there anyone in charge here? Should I go straight in or not? He told me that you can go straight in and make a promotion at the place where you buy ham sausage.

Then I went into the supermarket and found a place to sell ham sausages. I also specifically confirmed it to a staff member of the supermarket. I said that I am working part-time to sell ham sausage today. Is it okay to promote it here? I pointed out where I sell ham sausages. Aunt said, yes, and told me to change my work clothes if I have them. If I don't have them, I'll put them in the safe.

It was exactly eight o'clock when I finished these tasks, and I started my work. As early as 7: 52, the man sent me a number to call, probably because he was worried that I couldn't find a place. If I had seen this news, it wouldn't have happened later, but unfortunately there was no if)

I happily promoted my ham sausage until ten o'clock, and the mobile phone in my pocket shook for a long time. I received a phone call from that person. He asked me if I was at work. I said yes. I briefed him on my situation. For example, what brand of ham sausage should be promoted? What floor is it on?

Then I obviously felt that he was angry. He said you came to the wrong place, you know? I said no, I was in Wushangchao. He said, I'm talking about Wu Shang Supermarket on Dongyue Road, you know? I asked him, isn't this the Wu Shang supermarket on Dongyue Road? He told me angrily, Sister, you are at Renmin Road Wu Shang Supermarket. You don't know why you don't ask! I'm confused again. I am particularly guilty to say that I thought the Wu Shang supermarket on Dongyue Road was Renmin Road. What he went on to say was nothing more than accusing me. You think you think, why didn't you call me? Didn't you say you did it here? Don't you know you won't ask your classmates? Excuse me, is it too late for me to go there now? He said, look, it's already ten o'clock. Okay, okay, you go home first.

Suddenly, a deep sense of frustration hit every cell, and my brain suddenly shorted out. I think my reflex arc is too long to accept so much information at once.

When I reacted, I sent him a short message first. I said I was sorry. Because of my mistake, it affected your work. Sorry, so far, he hasn't answered me.

3.

On Saturday night, I thought for a long time about how all this happened.

Let's start with the first thing, 80% of it is my credit. Can't I ask my own questions? Is it difficult for me to check the route in advance? But it's not difficult, because I spent an hour and a half in Weibo at noon on Wednesday, preparing the interview content for half an hour, but I didn't spend ten minutes checking the route in advance.

The second reason is all on me. I am so self-righteous. What I think is not correct. At first, I just liked to sit in the right position, but then I suddenly entered the blind spot of thinking. Second, I have a thin face and love face, because I don't get along well with Wu at ordinary times, and I don't want to ask her anything, let alone disturb her. In fact, I don't want to show my ignorance in front of others

There is another important reason, I am particularly road crazy!

Do you think I'm particularly stupid? I hope you don't make such a low-level mistake when reading this article.

That's it. I successfully passed two part-time jobs. What does this mean to me? I can't find a job with a weekly salary for living expenses at present.

A particularly vulgar saying: opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. People who are unprepared (such as me) have no idea about the arrival of opportunities, and so do other things.

Finally, I will take my remaining dozens of dollars and embark on a part-time trip again.

I'm Zhang,

Thank you for reading my story or enjoying it.