How to send a message to comfort the classmate's husband who died in a car accident?

Stop crying. . . Your husband's car accident was an accident. . I didn't mean to abandon you. . Your husband was in a car accident. Tell the truth. I'm sorry, too. . But your husband doesn't want you to live in his shadow all the time. He must really want you to face your new life in another world. I also hope you can put the past behind you. . Face life again. . . The past is the past, let it be the past tense. . So you should come out of your sadness. . .