My girlfriend texted my husband before he got pregnant.

The most important thing about this problem is to clear your mind and choose carefully. Like me, I chose a divorce.

My husband and I lived together three months after we met. After living together for half a year, I got pregnant and they got married. I don't know him very well, so I think he is very kind to me and willing to protect me. I also want to have a good life with him, and I haven't considered anything else. Just this year, I found that he seemed a little abnormal. This is the third year of our marriage.

His sister is getting married this year. As the only brother, he has been busy with his sister's marriage these two days. No matter how busy he used to be, he would go home and sleep at midnight. The present situation seems to be deliberately avoiding me. I discovered his secret on his sister's wedding day. My husband left my mobile phone, and I found a short message. From the information, I learned that his predecessor had a house and this woman gave birth to a child for him. Older than our children, why didn't he tell me this before he got married? Now it's not about his relationship with his predecessor, it's about a child. I absolutely can't accept it. No matter which woman is placed on it, no one can accept a child for no reason.

The next day, I quarreled with him, and then it was very fierce. Until I filed for divorce, my husband never left, saying that he didn't want me to be the second her. Even if we divorce, he and his predecessor can't get married. The baby was an accident, and he didn't know it.

Since that message came, it has been out of control. That woman calls my husband every day, and he is also annoyed. Give her money, she doesn't want it. She insisted that my husband divorce me and give her children a birthright. I am also anxious to see my husband worried. I can't live with her. I told my husband that I didn't blame him, and we divorced. My husband told me to give up this idea. I'm in pain now, too I've been pestering us for a month. I can't eat well and sleep well this month, and I lost more than ten kilograms. I didn't succeed in losing weight before, but now I have lost more than ten kilograms, my face is yellow and emaciated, and my complexion is very poor.

My husband didn't make it clear to her at the beginning, and he was also responsible. Now the problem is very complicated. For the sake of the children, my relatives advised me not to divorce, but I feel that if I want to get rid of the current situation, divorce is my only choice, and I will suffer.

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