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How to pick up wedding guests?

1. We live together, how can we pick up the bride on the wedding day?

According to traditional Chinese customs, on the wedding day, that is, when there is a wedding car, the bride must not If you live in the same place as a man, of course you must live separately the night before. The woman must live in the so-called "maternal home". You can book a room for her in the hotel. When the time comes, drive a team to the hotel to greet her. This is how newcomers currently deal with such problems. Of course, the man must have a wedding team, and the woman must also have a wedding team. In this case, it is necessary to reserve several rooms in the hotel for her mother-in-law, at least to prepare them for the guests from the mother-in-law's family. . This is indispensable in etiquette. Are you getting married? It's your mother's family that counts. Everything must be considered carefully, otherwise even if people don't say anything, they will feel that the wedding is somewhat inappropriate.

As for what guests to invite, it should be the two of you who have the final say. If you both work out of town and the wedding is going to be held out of town, then you will need some guests who are not relatives of your own clan to fill the occasion. .

It shouldn’t matter, it mainly depends on the opinions of the two of you. Ask your wife for more advice, this will also enhance your relationship. All in all, weddings are a lot of trouble, and none of them are a big deal. I hope you can ask more opinions from "experienced people". Wish you a happy wedding.

2. Steps for a wedding receptionist to take orders

Disclaimer: I have worked in a wedding photo studio, and I typed this paragraph myself, please do not excerpt it. Whether you are in a photo studio or wedding-related industries, they are all universal.

There are dedicated people in the store to help you learn. I have done it before and have study notes. I guess it is a bit difficult to describe it now.

First of all, ordinary stores require employees to check in and greet guests. Smile and speak softly are required. I don’t even need to explain the welcome etiquette. When a customer enters the store, he must first be guided to sit in the order-taking area and pull out a chair for the customer. Self-introduction: Hello, I am your service store, my name is ***. Make eye contact and ask for a smile on your face.

Other stores serve tea to customers and help this store pick up order supplies, such as photo albums and price lists.

First of all, don’t ask the guests directly, how much do you want to take wedding photos? This is very impolite.

You can first introduce the features of your store, whether it is themed wedding dresses, sea view themes, VIP photo albums, or European-style photo frames.

When a guest expresses great interest, try to understand the guest's consumption needs and spending power. Generally, if a customer wants to see a package worth RMB 3,000 or RMB 3,000, you will bring out a package worth RMB 3,000 to RMB 3,000 and ask if it is suitable. If the customer does not object, you can introduce the package contents after basically asking for permission. When introducing, take a small piece of order-taking paper and write down the contents of the package while talking about it. Don’t write small words. Basically, after you finish speaking, the whole small piece of paper is filled. How can you not be excited? With so many services, remember to also write down a few sets of styles, haha.

If the guest is not willing, then follow the system starting from three thousand three and going down from high to low. At the same time, make timely eye contact with the guest and pay attention to the water in the guest's tea cup. From the conversation, you can tell whether someone's character is impatient or whether the couple is in charge. It’s much easier to find a point to intervene.

Sometimes the woman takes the initiative and basically gets her approval of your words. (Remember, you are not just introducing your products, but also introducing yourself and promoting yourself.) Basically, the list is fine.

If you successfully receive the order, make an appointment for a photo shoot, note the following, sign a photo shoot contract, pay a deposit in advance, leave your business card, and declare again: Hello, please remember me, I am your exclusive service Store **, if you have any questions in the future, please contact me in time and I will do my best to provide you with the best service.

When the customer leaves the store, you can send a text message to the customer's mobile phone. It is usually a blessing and the last signature is **STORE**.

Of course, orders that cannot be accepted must be tracked and serviced in a timely manner. For those who are willing to leave their contact information, you can contact them appropriately. If you are unwilling, don’t force it. Some people don’t like to be disturbed.

Don’t act excessively towards market researchers in the same industry.

I once met a market researcher. She just said that our service was good, and she was a little embarrassed. There is also a couple who used to be the staff of another photo studio who came to take wedding photos here.

It is important to serve with a smile.

3. How to pick up the bride after marriage

Nowadays, people are very interested in Chinese weddings. If you choose to hold a Chinese wedding, how to pick up the bride? How to pick up the bride at the wedding? Let’s take a look at the process of picking up a bride that couples must know, so that you can easily master the most important details of picking up a bride.

The process of picking up the bride at a wedding 1. Please: After meeting the bride’s family, the groom should hold a bouquet to the bride in the room. At this time, the bride’s girlfriend must deliberately stop the groom, but the condition is that the groom If you agree, the transaction is usually completed with a red envelope gift. Procedure for picking up the bride at the wedding 2. Farewell: How to pick up the bride at the wedding? The bride should say goodbye to her parents, while the groom should only bow.

Procedure for picking up the bride at the wedding 3. Going out: The bride should be escorted by a blessed female elder holding a bamboo plaque or a red umbrella to the ceremonial car, because the bride’s head cannot see the sun, and the other party hopes to be like Like this female elder, she lives a happy life, which represents the blossoming of branches and leaves. Scatter red beans, mung beans and rice on the top of umbrellas and cars to ward off evil spirits.

(Note: Prepare a bamboo plaque and put the word "happy" on it) Process of picking up the bride at the wedding 4. Limo: How to pick up the bride at the wedding? The bamboo plaque can be placed on the back cover of the limo. Process of picking up the bride at the wedding 5. Fan giving: Before the bride gets into the ceremonial car, an auspicious little boy holds a fan to the bride (places it on the tea tray) and the bride gives a red envelope in gratitude.

(Note: Prepare a fan with two small red envelopes) Process of getting married and picking up the bride 6. Don’t say goodbye: When everyone leaves the woman’s house, they must not say goodbye to the woman’s family. Procedure for picking up the bride at the wedding 7. Throwing the fan: How to pick up the bride at the wedding? After the ceremonial car starts, the bride should throw the fan out of the window, which means that she will not bring her bad temper to her husband's house. The little boy will pick up the fan and give it to the bride's family, who will give red envelopes as a thank you.

Process of picking up the bride at the wedding 8. Firecrackers: How to pick up the bride at the wedding? The limo left the woman's house and set off firecrackers.

4. How to generally pick up a sedan chair at a wedding

Marriage is one of the most important things in a person's life. After marriage, the children in the two families will re-establish a family and give birth to a new family. The negative side of raising children and supporting both parties, and getting married also means moving from a boy to a man, and from a girl to a woman. I believe that everyone is very busy on their wedding day. In order to familiarize the newlyweds who are about to get married with the process of picking up relatives on their wedding day, I would like to introduce it to you here.

The process of picking up a bride on the wedding day

The process of picking up a bride on the wedding day

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Get up early to prepare. The wedding day is very busy. The bride and groom have to get up early to prepare for the upcoming day.

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Send red envelopes. In the morning, don’t forget to give out red envelopes to the relatives and friends who come to the groom’s house, and give out red envelopes, wedding candies, and wedding cigarettes to the team driver and camera crew.

Acceptance process on the wedding day

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The groom contacts the motorcade and relevant personnel to be present. In the morning, the groom sets off with his bouquet, groomsmen, friends, and camera crew from the wedding company. When the motorcade arrives, he gets in the car within the specified time and sets off firecrackers.

Acceptance process on the wedding day

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Arrive at the bride’s home. The groom, the best man, relatives and friends knocked on the door. Generally, the groom will encounter two doors when he hits the door. At the first door, relatives and friends of the bride’s family will try their best to stop him. Of course, the groom should not be stingy with his red envelopes, wedding candies, and cigarettes. He should also say a few nice words and many more. Give me some red envelopes, I believe it will be faster if you approach the first door. The second gate is more difficult, but for the same reason, don’t be stingy with your red envelopes.

Acceptance process on the wedding day

Acceptance process on the wedding day

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After entering the bride's room, present a bouquet of flowers. The groom presented a bouquet to the bride, and the photographers and videographers began their busy work.

The process of picking up a bride on the wedding day

The process of picking up a bride on the wedding day

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Find shoes. After entering the bride's room, you can't leave immediately. You need to find the bride's wedding shoes. Generally, two pairs of wedding shoes will be hidden by relatives and friends in an inconspicuous place in the room. If you want to find the groom quickly, don’t be stingy with red envelopes.

Acceptance process on the wedding day

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After finding the shoes, the bride’s relatives carry the bride downstairs, and the bride and groom get into the wedding car and head to the wedding room. At the same time, the groom must notify his parents in advance to wait at the new house.

Acceptance process on the wedding day

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The groom serves tea to the bride’s parents. The bride's parents give red envelopes to the groom.

Acceptance process on the wedding day

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The motorcade arrived at the new house and set off firecrackers. The groom carries the bride upstairs. He may encounter various obstacles on the way, but he still hands out red envelopes. Drinking sweet soup means having a baby early. The bride serves tea to the groom’s parents, and the groom’s parents give red envelopes to the bride.

The process of picking up the bride on the wedding day

The process of picking up the bride on the wedding day

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Everyone went to the restaurant for lunch at noon. After everyone has finished their meal, the newlyweds go to the hotel and the bride goes to the dressing room to put on makeup. Relatives and friends can move around freely or come to the hotel to help prepare for the wedding in the evening.

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Notes

As long as you prepare for the process of the wedding day in advance and know what to do, the wedding will go on in an orderly manner.