My ex-boyfriend suddenly contacted me and said he wanted to get back together with me. How should I reply?

My ex-boyfriend suddenly contacted me and said he wanted to get back together with me. How should I reply? I have the following suggestions for this problem.

1. What was the reason for your breakup? If you commit any principled problems, such as cheating, cheating and chatting, then I suggest you not to get back together. Because of these principled problems, if he can commit them from the beginning, it means that he has a character problem. Since there is something wrong with character, there is no need to let yourself suffer again.

2. If there are no principled problems, just some communication problems, or everyone was very concerned about self-esteem and face at the beginning, because small problems broke up, they can still be considered. That depends on whether you can solve the previous problems if you get back together. At the beginning, it is necessary to deeply analyze the problems that led to the breakup. What's the problem? What should I do if I don't want to make the same mistake again?

3. If he comes to get back together with you, does he really realize that you are very important and put you in his future plans? This requires you to observe. If you haven't been in love after breaking up, or if you haven't had feelings for a long time, you should have a heart-to-heart talk with your ex-boyfriend If you really love each other, you should return to your ex-boyfriend without hesitation. Maybe a marriage with a vivid love story is long-lasting. Make sure you are not blind or worried about getting back together, and observe for a while. Because the time he sought to get back together was actually like the time he pursued you. He will hide those aspects of his body that you don't like. You should carefully observe whether he is pretending.

In short, loving someone depends on whether you can love him or not. If there is something wrong with his bottom line, I suggest you never accept it (because it will make you suffer. If there is nothing wrong with his bottom line, then observe him well and observe your heart well.