How to deal with parents' urging marriage?

1, think about the countermeasures before going home.

Parents know their children best, and children know their parents best. You must know what your parents will do and say to get married. So, before going home for the New Year, think more about how to deal with it and how to persuade your parents to respect your ideas. It would be great if we could fall in love before going home. But if your love keeps the skylight open, then you have to think about it.

2. Keep your heart calm

When you go home to meet your parents, you must keep a peaceful mind, because you know they will definitely push for marriage, so just be prepared for it at any time. If they don't mention it, don't blame yourself, or you will be trapped. You can't stand mixed doubles with your parents. You should realize that it is normal for parents to urge marriage, and remember to communicate with them with a peaceful mind to alleviate the contradictions caused by urging marriage.

3. Don't be silent.

Then the second point is that when parents start urging marriage, you can't help talking, so parents will think that you don't work hard or love marriage. You should learn to shut up in order to escape punishment. When parents found that urging marriage didn't work, it came to an end temporarily. At the same time, we should take care of our parents' emotions, say what we should say, and don't talk nonsense about what we shouldn't say, otherwise we will dig a hole for ourselves.

4, can't quarrel

Remember, you can't quarrel with your parents when they are urging marriage. After all, they mean well and have good intentions. Although they sometimes regard their children's marriage as a task, they are your parents, even if it is a task. When many people think that their marriage is the "task" of their parents, there will be contradictions, and then they will start to get excited and start to swear. It is wrong for you to be angry with your parents. They can quarrel with you, but you can't quarrel with them. You have something to say, and that's what we're going to talk about next.

5. Speak your mind

Children nowadays are realistic about marriage, but there is nothing wrong with it. It is understandable to choose not to get married for the time being without sufficient economic foundation. However, you must have your own ideas about your marriage. In this way, when your parents urge you to get married, you can explain your thoughts to them, analyze your interests clearly, and let your parents know that you have reasons and plans for not getting married for the time being. Only when you let your parents know that you can dominate themselves will they feel at ease and let go of their marriage slowly.