Enlightenment from the crisis

In the 9 1 1 terrorist attack, people's love and calmness at the critical moment brought us enlightenment.

When the World Trade Center was about to collapse after the terrorist attacks, people in distress were still quarreling and making way for the injured, women and children in an orderly manner. At the last minute, new york firefighters rushed into the building to rescue the wounded regardless of their own safety, so many firefighters gave their lives. In this do or die, people are still calm, stick to noble humanity and leave the hope of life to others. Their deeds shocked the whole world, touched the whole world and increased the inner strength of mankind.

However, while paying the highest respect to them, there are some things I can't understand. We all know that survival is the biological instinct of human beings. What makes them love, respect and think of others first when facing death? What made them overcome their fear of death and keep a calm and quiet heart? We know that not one or two people do this, but almost all of them. It was not until I converted to Christianity that I finally understood; People do this because of Christian faith, because God is in people's hearts!

1994 what did we see in the Karamay theater fire? Regardless of the lives of others, 288 of the 325 people who died were children (most of them died of suffocation), and none of the 300 officials died or were slightly injured. An official who passed the fire brigade after escaping and did not call the police. An official who hides in a toilet that can hold dozens of people, screams and knocks at the door but refuses to open it, and then shows off his clever escape. In our world, it is another crisis moment. Don't people all escape in a chaotic and irrational way?

What makes such a big difference? People who stay out of it will condemn and hate such behavior, but please think it over. Are we qualified to judge them? If you were in the same situation, would you perform better than them? A person who thinks that both material life and material world are life, does not believe in eternal life, has no God in his heart, and has no Christian faith, please ask yourself; What motivates you to love and respect others? In times of crisis, what can give you the motivation and strength to transcend your survival instinct and leave the hope of life to others? Maybe you usually have a good moral performance, but in the face of death that you think will lose everything, your conscience is very poor.

The disaster romance movies represented by Titanic always make people cry, and the real love story facing the disaster in real life is equally commendable and unforgettable. 165438+1Oct 15 After a fire broke out in a high-rise apartment in Shanghai, several love stories were circulated in Weibo. At the same time, a couple was found hugging at the fire rescue site, and even the fire could not separate them.

"This moving scene, a real moving story, makes people in modern society reflect, what is true love, material desire in impetuous society, or persistence in the spiritual field?" Gong Haiyan, CEO of jiayuan, the largest serious dating website in China, believes that although the disaster is painful, it also brings more enlightenment to people. Love always leaves people with the most positive and powerful energy, which can withstand hardships and tests.

Fire scene map circulated on the internet

Love swan song: a touching legend from the fire

"Firefighters rescued a young couple on the scaffolding. The young man protected his girlfriend with his body in the raging fire. He suffered deep burns to his back and back and died shortly after being rescued. The last sentence he said to his girlfriend was "I may not make it, you must be strong". Fortunately, his girlfriend was only slightly injured under his protection and choked on the smoke. Her life is not in danger. "

"165438+1October 15 16:00, Teachers' Apartment, No.728, Jiaozhou Road, Shanghai. Wake up, old woman. You didn't sleep last night. You smell a lot of smoke. She opened the door, which was full of smoke. She returned to the bed with a wet towel in her hand. There's a fire. I can't get out. You can't get out of bed Listen to me. We're not leaving. Looked at each other a few times. Take it. Is it worth it? "Value. SMS: Son, it's not painful for us to go. Don't be sad. "

These are the two stories that have been forwarded the most in Weibo, and they have become the love swan song that touched the world for a time. In Weibo's subsequent messages, netizens were moved by the fact that love has the power to transcend disasters and is proud of everything. They spontaneously pray for the victims, hoping that they can have an invincible pure love in the real society.

"The young man said this sentence is very simple. Their love may have been ordinary before, but in the face of disaster, this sentence is the most touching love story, and this love also shows that true love is the most invincible positive force at any time. "Netizen orange said in Weibo.

Cherish love: the enlightenment left by disaster

When Tangshan Earthquake was released this year, many people thought that movies could make people re-examine their feelings, but compared with movies, the bloody reality disaster taught people a lesson about love in modern society.

External temptation leads to frequent extramarital affairs, lack of tolerance and communication skills leads to high divorce rate, and money worship continues to appear, which proves that love is suffering from material invasion ... Jiayuan emotional experts believe that in modern society, people's material world is extremely rich, but their spiritual field is increasingly impetuous, and few people can calm down and put aside their material desires and only seek peace and run a pure love and marriage. Even couples with stable relationships often quarrel over trivial matters. The result of not knowing how to cherish is to kill love with your own hands.

"A lot of things are often lost before they are precious. Love in disaster will return to ordinary life, perhaps just an ordinary love. The key is whether you know how to cherish this love and treat people around you sincerely. " Gong Haiyan, an emotional expert in jiayuan, said.

True feelings are rare: love legends should not just be worshipped.

If you watch carefully, you will find that the posts about love on the forum will always attract many people to pay attention to the discussion. It can be seen that most people still firmly believe in the existence of true love, or look forward to a beautiful love.

And true love can always have firm, positive and touching power. Jiayuan CEO and emotional expert Gong Haiyan believes that true love always has two sides. When the years are quiet and the world is cold, it is unremarkable, and even people will ignore it. Once suffering, true love will make people support each other and warm each other. "True love does not lie in whether there are sweet words or affairs, but in whether you can stand hardships and endure dull fleeting time." Gong Haiyan said.

At the same time, Gong Haiyan also suggested that love legends should not only be worshipped, but also the true feelings in modern society are particularly valuable. Everyone should learn from them, believe in and actively pursue true love, and treat and cherish the people around them.