Are there any dangers in mass messaging?

1. Sending messages in groups seems insincere

The Chinese New Year is a good time for relatives and friends to gather together, including those who are not in contact with each other, those who are close and distant, those who are familiar and unfamiliar, and those who are in New Year. The rope was twisted, and we couldn't help but move closer to each other. It was a good time to meet each other, greetings, reminiscing about the past, and talking about everything. The atmosphere of the New Year is a vast world and a leisurely time. There is no pressure on everyone, so naturally we have a great time chatting. But for those who cannot meet in person, they can only achieve the same wish with the help of developed communication facilities, such as making New Year greeting calls, online videos, mobile text messages and the emerging WeChat. Phone calls, videos, etc. are undoubtedly time-consuming, not economical and fast enough, unless You can try it if you are particularly close, but it is impossible to spread it to all relatives and friends. Short message is a popular form of communication. It is fast and convenient. It has been popular for more than ten years. It still occupies the first channel for Spring Festival greetings. However, the operation of short message The business has just changed.

At such a grand occasion as the Chinese New Year, everyone is eager to receive blessing text messages. The more messages they receive, the more it shows that they have a strong personality and have many friends and a wide range of friends, which is a foaming agent for self-expansion. However, among the many messages you received, you found that different friends sent the same blessing text message. Some of them were so reckless that they didn't even have time to change their signature before forwarding it. This was even more shocking. Do you still feel heavy? ? Of course not. You will regretfully find that you are not important, and you will see through your friends' carelessness. Just tap a button on a short message, and the message sent to you will be sent to hundreds of people at the same time. Such a convenient operation will ruin your life. The good image of a friend who is honest and reliable in your mind has been lost. It turns out that you are just a string of cold numbers in his New Year greetings. What he sends to you is not a blessing, but a radio wave to test the link. At this time, people often express doubts about the meaning of sending text messages and lose confidence in their sincerity.

2. Mass messaging casts a shadow on the New Year’s celebrations

The New Year’s celebrations run through New Year’s Eve, and most of those who have gone through hardships and traveled back home probably coincide with New Year’s Eve, and The good time for family reunion may only be New Year's Eve and the first two days of the Lunar New Year. The other days require frequent trips out to visit relatives and friends, and it is as busy as catching up. Therefore, the New Year's Eve feast requires you to calm down and concentrate on spending time with your parents and family, but during this time It’s another time when blessing messages are intensively sent out, and no one can block the interference, because you can’t rudely reject other people’s good wishes, you can only accept them. Receiving sincere blessings will definitely be the icing on the cake. If the screen full of group text messages fills up the memory of your mobile phone like the plague, your heart will not be so beautiful, and you will be depressed! You'll be sick! These group text messages drown the real and meaningful greetings in the torrent. It is possible that you miss the crucial blessing message in your life. It is possible that the person in your heart has been waiting for a long time after sending you the blessing of love. Feeling resentful if you don't get a response. During the Spring Festival, any unpleasantness will cloud the New Year's celebrations and leave a shadow in your heart. A bad start will always leave people with knots that can't be untied.

3. Group messaging makes friendship or family relationships lose their sense of authenticity

The maintenance of relationships lies in the management and dedication of both parties. Family love and friendship are two different feelings. We often They will treat each other differently and use different attitudes and methods to maintain the sincerity and long-term relationship. However, the greetings during the New Year bring the two emotions together and merge them into one. During the Spring Festival, relatives and friends cannot tell them apart, and they have no intention of distinguishing them so clearly. Anyway, it is the New Year, so we just want to be happy and auspicious. Regardless of family affection or friendship, we can agree on the same rules and just cook them all in one pot.