I didn't know he had a family until I spent some time with him. He was with me before, he ignored his wife, and now he sends me a message saying the same thing.

First of all, this man didn't have a free body before, and he didn't tell you that he was a family man, so being with you shows that there is something wrong with his personality and lifestyle. After being with you, I sent you a message to make you forget him and found an excuse to break up, which further proved that he didn't really love you before being with you, and I think this person is selfish and irresponsible and not worthy of your infatuation! So, try to forget him! It is your wisest choice to stay away from such a love rat, because you will not be happy with such a man. I know it must be hard for you to forget him, but time can make this pain disappear slowly. . .