Touching events of Sichuan earthquake

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A story about online dating and the 5. 12 earthquake.

The hero of the story is Li Gui, a native of Yingxiu, Sichuan; His girlfriend Xiaowen is from Guangxi. They met online and fell in love. This relationship was strongly opposed by Xiaowen's mother. In the end, love overcame everything, and Xiaowen left her mother for Yingxiu. After Xiaowen was killed in Wenchuan earthquake, Li Gui came to Guangxi from Wenchuan and took the initiative to take care of his girlfriend's parents. This touching story made Gui Li one of the top ten filial figures in Guangxi in 2008.

Yangzi Evening News reported on May 6th? When affection, love and the crystallization of love are all destroyed by the earthquake, what can the living rely on? A young man in Wenchuan, after his parents, his girlfriend who didn't go through the door and the life in his stomach died together, went to his girlfriend's parents far away to show filial piety. In an earthquake, distant parents lost their daughters, but they gained a son from Wenchuan. ...

Lose my love forever? The bridge collapsed when my girlfriend took refuge.

Time flashed back to 2: 28 pm on May 12, 2008. All Gui Li's sorrows began from that moment, and all his thoughts were traced back from that moment.

Li Gui, who lives in Yinxing Township, Wenchuan County, came to the county town from the village to help with things at the call of Dajiefu that morning. After a strong earthquake, the county town of Weizhou became an isolated city. At the same time, in Yinxing Township, Li Guijia opened a small shop on the side of the national road, and the family watched the business while playing mahjong. Cars from Dujiangyan Elite Show to Aba Prefecture and Jiuzhaigou must pass through this road. Business in the store is good, and everything at home is kept in the store. The violent vibration made them all rush out of the house, and the mountains on both sides of the road collapsed. Only the bridge deck on the Minjiang River ahead is a relatively empty place. 16 people in the village ran to the bridge to take refuge. However, the bridge suddenly broke, and all the people on it fell into the rapids of the Minjiang River and were washed away without a trace. Six people including Li's parents, sister, cousin and girlfriend Xiaowen were killed.

Li Gui and Xiaowen met online. "I accidentally added her QQ five years ago. At that time, I didn't say much, except that she was a Guangxi girl of 16. More than a year later, he was in a bad mood and called Xiaowen after being drunk. Xiaowen had joined the art troupe in Dongguan at that time. She joked with Gui Li about getting married, and Li told her half jokingly, "Come here, I'll find someone to marry you! "

After the divorce in 2006, Li Gui and Xiaowen established a love relationship in June 2007, but they still haven't met. In August of that year, Li Gui went to Nanning to meet Xiaowen and returned to Wenchuan. "At Nanning Railway Station, we recognized each other at first sight, and the online communication was already too familiar." Looking back on the good times of online dating, Gui Li still thinks that the network witnessed and preserved their relationship. Li's house was in ruins after the earthquake, and everything, including the mobile phone, was in it. "Fortunately, at that time, mobile phones and cameras took a lot of photos and kept them in cyberspace."

That time in Nanning, Li Gui was afraid to go to the countryside to see Xiaowen's parents again, because he knew from Xiaowen that they were opposed to such distant contacts. "Sichuan is too far away, what should I do?" .

They are very happy in Wenchuan. In rural Wenchuan, most women don't work. After Xiaowen came home, her cousins who didn't come to see her often ran to Li Gui's house all day. "Relatives like to play with her." Gui Li learns Mandarin from Xiaowen, and Xiaowen learns Sichuan dialect from him. "She is very clever and learns things quickly." . Li Gui himself, a man who dares to think and try, contracted the power station and the battlefield, and was the first in the village to buy computers and install network cables.

At the beginning of 2008, Xiaowen went home for the New Year due to the snow disaster in the south. When she returned to Wenchuan on the twelfth day of the first month, she lied to her mother that she would go to Guangdong to work again. On the way, her cell phone died. Anxious Xiaowen's mother called Li Gui at the first time: "Xiaowen went to your place again? Actually, I'm not looking down on you. I'm really worried because it's too far away. Since Wenwen chose you, you should take good care of her. "

After the Spring Festival, Li Gui opened a canteen at the bridgehead of Minjiang River in Ginkgo Section of 3 17 National Highway, which also kept Xiaowen busy. They were already planning to get married at that time. On April 10, Xiaowen's new house was completed, and she set foot on the road to her hometown for the last time. At this point, Xiaowen has been pregnant for a month. She patted Gui Li's belly with special joy and cried happily, "I know what's here. There's a baby." .

10 days later, Xiaowen returned to Wenchuan until "5. 12" and was buried in a foreign land.

Go to Guangxi? Be the son of "mom and dad"

"DaJieFu called me to the county seat and saved my life. But I promised Xiaowen's mother, but I failed to protect her. " After the earthquake, Li Gui was very thin, with prominent cheekbones.

After the earthquake, Xiaowen's parents in Guangxi couldn't contact Li Gui, so Xiaowen's mother left for Sichuan to find a woman. And Gui Li didn't have his mobile phone and address book, and Xiaowen's phone couldn't get through. Gui Li left a message in the cyberspace of Xiaowen's menstruation. Finally, menstruation called Xiaowen's mother and told her that Dujiangyan was coming. "When Dujiangyan and her mother first met, she fainted." At that time, Dujiangyan to Wenchuan was in the most urgent time of disaster relief, the road was interrupted and there was no hope of finding relatives. My mother woke up and asked Li Gui, "My daughter is missing. Why did you inform me?" . Li Gui just silently fed Xiaowen's mother who was lying on the bed with water. "When my mother first met me, she knew that I only had 200 yuan, so she asked me to get a card and said that she would call me when she returned to Guangxi. She is a very kind and kind person. "

"Mom only stayed in Dujiangyan for two days. When she left, she said, "Your parents left, and so did my daughter. Go to Guangxi. We lost our daughter, but we found our son. "Li Gui, who is in great pain, hasn't decided how to live in the future. She just thinks," It's good to be a mother. "

In the days of separation, Gui Li sends a short message to "Mom and Dad" every day:

"You should take care of yourself. I'll come to see you when I'm finished here. "

"I will be strong, please rest assured." ……

These short messages, my mother left them in her mobile phone.

Li Gui felt that with Xiaowen gone, his heart with "Mom and Dad" was getting closer and closer.

In June 2008, Li Gui went to Xiaowen's home in Guangxi for the first time. In the new house built more than two months ago, there are many photos of Xiaowen. Things have changed, and he is increasingly worried about how Xiaowen's parents will live without their daughters. "It's too hard to grow sugar cane. I want to get more than 30 thousand victims' compensation and more than 20 thousand government loans, and then borrow some money to open a jade shop in Guangxi to make a living for my parents. " Gui Li knew Xiaowen's menstruation and opened a jade shop at Dongxing Port on the Sino-Vietnamese border. He is quite clever and thinks that although there are many shops in the local jade market, most of them are low-end sales and have no brands. He went to Beijing and found the "Nu Wa Ji" who specializes in jade ornaments? Joining the business, after paying nearly 30,000 yuan for goods and joining fees, the other party realized that he was the people affected by the earthquake and exempted him from the contract deposit of 1.5 million yuan.

When Xiaowenjia built a new house, 70,000 of the 6,543.8+7,000 yuan was borrowed. When Xiaowen was still alive, he discussed with Li Gui, and when they went home to visit relatives together in the future, they took out twenty thousand pieces of bride price to help the family bear some debts of building houses. But my mother said at the time that "the bride price is indeed a custom, but you still want to start a business, so don't give it."

Living with "Mom and Dad" who are not related by blood, Gui Li has gained a little popularity in Guangxi. At the beginning of this year, he was selected as "Top Ten Filial Piety Stars in Guangxi in 2008".

Live and die together? Love without a tombstone is in my heart.

At noon on April 26th, 2009, Li Gui went back to his hometown and passed Yingxiu Town. He had lunch with reporters at the boardroom hotel on the roadside of Yingxiu Town. "The store there was originally planned to open on May 1 day, but the renovation cost was still more than 10,000 yuan. When I came back, I just tried to raise more money. " .

On one side of the Banfang Hotel is the roaring Minjiang River, which is more than ten kilometers upstream, which is where Xiaowen was killed. While eating, Gui Li received a phone call, "Mom called to ask where I was and whether I had eaten." . Make such a call at least once a day. Li Gui looked up at the nearby Minjiang River and told the reporter: "The body can't be found, and the tomb has not been built." If the tombstone is erected, "it should be: Huang, born in May of 1989 and died in May of 12." It turns out that Xiaowen's anniversary is her birthday.

What makes Li Gui feel "providence" even more is the number of the new mobile phone that Xiaowen bought in Dujiangyan on April 7th before his death. The last three digits are 5 12. Until now, Li Gui sometimes calls two mobile phone numbers that Xiaowen used before his death. "The number 5 12 may have a phone bill, and it didn't stop, just turned it off. She used another number in Guangdong before, but it can't be used anymore. One day, I suddenly got through. I hung up and sent a text message to the owner, apologizing for disturbing him and telling him that this number witnessed the beginning of a love. "

Reporter's notes

Rebirth is to seek new meaning in life.

Another story of self-psychological reconstruction, this time it is a kind of filial piety.

Compared with the large-scale counterpart aid construction by external forces, most people in the disaster areas are self-help and self-treatment in their own way. For the story of Gui Li's filial piety, at first, I just noticed Gui Li's psychology after losing his lover. With his girlfriend gone, he can still be filial to his unrelated girlfriend's parents, which is really a commendable virtue. However, observing all the trauma of Gui Li, we can see that he lost his parents at the same time, his family was broken and he was heavily in debt. What is the meaning of life? Going to a distant place for filial piety is also the psychological need and support for Gui Li to start a new life. He cares about the past, looks forward to the future and seeks new meaning of life.

Filial piety is an emotional catharsis. For Gui Li, he found a new meaning in life. Gui Li's filial piety and "mom and dad's" love for him did not involve the exchange of interests, and were not well thought out. I prefer to regard it as an instinct, an instinct of love, beyond blood, simple and simple.