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How to speak for the wedding banquet?

1. What should I say if I invite others to my wedding?

Shijiazhuang classic wedding planner gives you an answer: Hello, xx and I held a wedding celebration on xx, xx, xxxx. We sincerely invite you and your family to attend. Thank you for your blessing.

I will hold a wedding with xx on xx. Time is xxx, looking forward to your arrival. Xxx looks forward to your visit. Hold a wedding reception with xx on xx, xx, Xxxx. I hope you can come. Please remember to arrive on time. The address is xxxxxxxx. We sincerely invite your witness.

We will hold a wedding ceremony for me and xxxx in XX, XX, and invite you to come.

2. The invitation letter of the bride. How do you say the invitation letter for the wedding and dinner?

Large banquets involve tens of thousands of guests, so you should not take it lightly when ordering food. The fees and service scope should be set out in black and white, and no verbal commitment should be made.

The following are some points to pay attention to when booking a banquet and writing a menu:

The dishes on the menu should be detailed. Don't accept some ambiguous words, such as "steamed seafood at sea" or "dragons and phoenixes spread their wings". , and specify the content. Whether sea cucumber, shark's fin and suckling pig are whole or part should be listed one by one.

When you make a reservation, you must clearly list the name of the hall where the wine is placed on the order, so as to avoid being too crowded or scattered in the future. Book the bride's lounge before booking a seat, and ensure that the bride's room is not too far and too narrow to be easily peeped. Because new people need to change clothes and make up, spring is not good at first blow. Clearly list the price of each charge, such as tea, bottle opening fee, beer, soda, pre-dinner snacks, service fee, etc.

Before paying the deposit, ask clearly what to do with the deposit and whether to compensate for the loss if the wedding banquet is cancelled due to bad weather or unexpected events. Of course, you must not forget to ask for a deposit receipt. Need to be clear about the number of seats that can be increased or decreased, and how to deal with the remaining banquets. When budgeting the number of tables, we should consider the attendance rate of guests to avoid some embarrassing situations due to insufficient or excessive guests.

When booking a banquet, there should be some arrangements for the host's seat. Other guests generally have no special restrictions, and most of them are on a first-come-first-served basis. If you choose to get married in the wedding season, you should make an appointment in advance, especially in some popular places.

Now many wedding banquet owners will arrange seats for their guests in advance to avoid offending relatives and friends because they are in a hurry. Therefore, a systematic approach is to arrange seats in advance and assign station numbers, so that guests can take their places and everyone will be happy.

3. How to speak at a wedding reception

When it comes to drinking, almost everyone has experienced it personally. "Wine culture" is also an ancient and fresh topic and an indispensable part of wedding etiquette.

Modern people find the function of wine more and more in the process of communication. Indeed, wine, as a media, plays a unique role in entertaining guests, welcoming guests, gathering friends, communicating with each other and passing on friendship at wedding banquets. Therefore, exploring the "mystery" on the wine table, especially at the wedding banquet, is helpful to the atmosphere at the wedding scene and the success of your communication.

Wedding banquet is an important part of wedding etiquette. Let's take a look at how to speak at the banquet in wedding etiquette. 1, everyone is happy together, don't whisper. Most banquets have a large number of guests, so try to talk about topics that most people can participate in and get the approval of most people.

Because of different personal hobbies and knowledge, the topic should not be too biased as far as possible, so as not to be dominated by one family, far apart, and talk endlessly, leading to digression and ignoring everyone. Tips-Party adventures, especially trying not to whisper to others and giving others a sense of mystery, often lead to jealousy of "just the two of you" and affect the effect of drinking.

2, aim at the guest and the host, grasp the overall situation Most banquets have a theme, which is the purpose of drinking. When you go to eat, you should first look at the expressions around you and prioritize. Don't drink for the sake of drinking, and you lose a good chance to make friends, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's meaning.

3, the language is decent, and humor sprinkled on the dining table can show a person's talent, common sense, cultivation and communication etiquette. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you invisibly. Therefore, it is very important to know when to say something, to use appropriate language, and to be humorous.

4, moderately persuade wine, do not forcibly persuade the phenomenon on the wine table, some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield, trying to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough. "Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink less. Sometimes, excessive persuasion will completely destroy the feelings of the original friends.

5, toasting in an orderly manner, distinguishing between primary and secondary toasting is also a science. Generally speaking, a toast should be made in the order of age, position and the status of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary.

In order to drink with people you don't know, you should first find out your identity, or pay attention to what others call you, so as not to be embarrassed or hurt your feelings. When toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting.

If you want to have a guest at the dinner table, you should be respectful to him, but you should pay attention to the fact that if someone with higher status or older people is present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also propose a toast to the respected elders first, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed. 6, observe words and observe colors, understand people's hearts If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to observe words and observe colors.

Because when dealing with people, we must understand people's hearts, so that we can play a good role on the wine table. 7. The sharpness is gradually revealed. If you want to sit firmly in the Taishan banquet, you must see clearly the occasion, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to keep some wine and talk, don't let others underestimate yourself, don't show yourself too much, choose the right time, and gradually radiate your sharpness. Only in this way can you sit firmly in Taishan, don't give others the idea of "just this skill", and let everyone dare not underestimate their own strength.

4. How to speak at the banquet of wedding etiquette

Etiquette of the bride and groom at the wedding

The bride and groom are the natural protagonists of the wedding and the focus in the eyes of the guests. Whether the whole wedding can be successfully completed depends on the guests' impression of the bride and groom. Therefore, it is very important for the bride and groom to be considerate and decent at the wedding. Generally speaking, the following points should be noted:

Dress up: The bride and groom should pay special attention to their appearance when they get married. They can make up properly, do their hair well and keep radiant. The groom usually wears a suit and tie, and the bride usually wears a wedding dress. Wear necklaces, earrings and other accessories appropriately, but not too much, so as not to be tacky.

Welcome: the bride and groom should stand at the door with flowers in their hands to greet the guests, and should not walk back and forth; When the guests arrive, they should be warmly welcomed and thanked, introduced to the elders or other guests at home in time, and then offered their seats in turn according to their elders or generations. For the red envelopes given by the guests at this time, the bride and groom should express their gratitude equally, regardless of the ceremony. Offer cigarettes and tea in both hands and light a fire for the elders or peers who smoke.

Talking and laughing: be sincere and humble when talking to your elders, and don't talk nonsense; Speak warmly and politely with peers, and pay attention to humility; Don't stop laughing and don't be silent; Be warm and friendly to the younger generation.

Sit up straight and walk: don't sit on the sofa askew, let alone cross your legs. When standing and talking, keep your back straight, and don't shake or move around frequently. Don't walk slowly, like walking, but don't run around. You can run at a brisk pace, but you should pay attention to your walking posture and rhythm.

Cooperate with each other: at the wedding, the bride and groom go out in pairs, so it is best not to act separately. In terms of mutual cooperation, we should pay attention to etiquette, such as introducing elders or equal relatives and friends to each other; When walking together, the two sides should not be too far away, but they should not be too close; If guests make trouble, they should help each other. When seated, the bride should be seated first.

The wedding reception begins: the bride and groom should go to the guest table in order to propose a toast to the guests. When making a toast, you should fill it with your own hands and hold it for the guests with both hands, but don't force the guests to drink it all at once. After the guest puts down the glass, the bride and groom should say "thank you", fill the glass for the guest again, and then propose a toast to the next guest. The bride and groom should take good care of the guests at the wedding reception, let relatives and friends eat, drink and leave happily. Don't eat and drink by yourself, or even get drunk on the spot. This is impolite. When making a toast to a guest, even if you can't drink enough, you should show a little, at least raise your glass to thank you and explain the reason why you can't drink too much.

After the wedding reception: when the guests leave, the bride and groom should stand at the door, shake hands with the guests and say "thank you for coming" and "please walk slowly".

It's easier said than done. It's easier said than done.