Husband refuses to change his mind and chat with women (what is the psychology of men's extramarital love)

A female reader said that her husband often chats with other women, and the content is very ambiguous.

For this reason, the couple often quarrel, but the husband still goes his own way without any change, which has seriously affected their feelings. But how do husbands explain it?

"I'm just chatting, and there is no substantive intimate contact. Maybe I can't have friends of the opposite sex? "

In other words, people are emotionally selfish, and readers feel very distressed and don't understand. What kind of psychology is the husband? Is it an affair?

In life, perhaps many women will encounter such a situation more or less.

In fact, this is a typical borderless feeling. A man can't help but know that this will hurt his wife and destroy the feelings of two people. Then he insists on this, which proves that he is not afraid of hurting his wife and destroying the feelings of two people.

Then analyze it.

What psychology is a man's extramarital love? No more than four!

First, create opportunities for cheating. There is a passage that impressed me deeply and said:

"Emotional infidelity is almost inevitable for modern men, but women don't know it. Physical infidelity is to see if this man has a chance. Playfulness is impulsive, and derailment is a long-term move. "

It really feels like this.

In other words, all betrayals are premeditated for a long time, and no one thought about cheating at the moment of cheating. Then there is a process from thinking to doing, and it also needs an opportunity.

So, at least some men are having an affair outside, just creating opportunities for their infidelity.

In an ambiguous way, approach and close the distance between two people. With a certain amount of trust, the rest is almost natural. To put it bluntly, it is to send a signal of "I like you" to women outside under the guise of love.

It is worth mentioning that women are not animals who think with their lower bodies, but always follow their own feelings.

Men are naturally aware of this, so they must give women the feeling they want before they can feel desperate.

Things that happen in life.

Men quit as soon as they have had enough fun, while women get deeper and deeper until they can't extricate themselves from the beginning. The ending is doomed, because men are rational from beginning to end, and they approach with their destinations.

Second, the feeling of coveting ambiguity. As we all know, although ambiguity is not good, it gives people a wonderful feeling, which makes people obsessed, fascinated and can't help falling into it.

To put it bluntly, ambiguity brings people a temporary sense of excitement.

Men, on the other hand, are out of curiosity and have a desire to explore and conquer the unknown by "casting nets" to meet their own needs.

Zhang Ailing said: "A man will stop loving a woman after he knows her thoroughly."

Generally speaking, men don't have any desire to explore a woman who they already know thoroughly, but usually show boredom and distance.

In fact, what men like is far from beautiful women, but women that he feels fresh.

Because there is a trace of animality in a man's nature, in essence, a man will not stop courting other women because he has married such an excellent wife.

In fact, it is better to say that "stealing" brings excitement to men than to say that ambiguity brings excitement to men.

If we analyze it from the angle of ambiguity itself, then the good feeling comes from that kind of hazy, vague, unknown and fresh. A cat that smells fishy will never give up that kind of smell.

Third, in order to prove their charm. I hope to prove my charm through ambiguity, and I also hope to be recognized and appreciated by others.

For example, a man with low self-esteem can't compete with people around him in other things, which may be objective factors or his own reasons. Over time, he especially wanted to prove himself.

Is to deliberately highlight their sense of existence and value.

You know, the feeling of being recognized by others is very beautiful, which greatly satisfies the vanity of men, especially the face-saving animals like men.

It is also possible that he never gets his wife's approval at home, and her wife will only criticize and belittle him.

There is also a man who simply enjoys the ambiguous pride and is proud of it. He even thinks that it is his own skill, and his own speech can be shown off in front of his friends.

Take ambiguity as the joy of life and try to prove yourself.

Fourth, I really moved the truth. What people are most afraid of is moving their feelings, and then their bodies will not be controlled by themselves.

Missing, dreaming, despair, these are the most common manifestations of emotional people, and all actions can't help but want to get close to that person inexplicably.

Otherwise, how can you say that you can't sleep at night without knowing the taste?

Therefore, if a man refuses to change his mind, quarrels with you every time, and secretly has an affair with another woman, it is likely that he has changed his mind, stopped loving you and fell in love with another person.

My heart is not on you, how can I consider your feelings and will it hurt you?

In this world, it can be said that there are no careless people, only those who don't love. But as long as you are in my heart, no matter how small things are, I can take care of you and take care of you.

Love is an instinct. Love a person, there will be instinctive love, instinctive love behavior

The above are the four kinds of psychology analyzed, and the four kinds of psychology of men engaging in extramarital affairs are ambiguous.

Women should not deceive themselves. All the reasons are false. Why do men dare to hurt you? There is only one answer. Only if he is not afraid of hurting you will he dare to hurt you.

Loyalty is not a deliberate act, nor is it a forced result.

But out of my feelings for someone, I can always put you first and your feelings first. To ensure loyalty to feelings is to cherish feelings.

To tell the truth, men must have a sense of boundaries, know how to keep their distance from other women, and don't be vague.

Put yourself in the other's shoes. How would you feel if the same thing happened to you? The so-called generosity, in fact, does not care at all, without exception.

Ambiguous behavior seems cool, but it can only prove that your level is very low.

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