Elva Hsiao claims to be a genius in love. What can each relationship teach a person?

Breaking up is painful, but don't just feel sorry for yourself. Every relationship has its own unique flavor, from which you can learn a lot. Let's grow up quickly, and when facing the next relationship, we can be more calm and loving to ensure the greatest success rate.

1, love yourself.

Many girls are dedicated, and once they fall in love, they will pay the price. There is nothing wrong with doing this. What is wrong is losing yourself because of love. In a relationship, we can give each other 60% love at most, and the remaining 40% is for ourselves. Study hard, cultivate hobbies, care about parents and friends, and so on. Remember a word, if a butterfly is in full bloom, if you want to catch the other half's heart, you should not only be kind to him, but also attract him with your own charm, so that love will last long.

2. Love him and trust him.

I've seen too many people feel insecure once they fall in love. Check each other's whereabouts by phone and SMS every day, secretly rummage through his mobile phone in the middle of the night, and get hysterical and noisy when he sees each other chatting and laughing with the opposite sex. This kind of love is simply too low-level and full of negative energy. Since you have chosen him, you should give him the greatest trust. If the other person really has the idea of cheating, no matter how strict you are, he can get rid of it.

3, the three views are different, don't be hard to melt.

When two people are together, apart from looks and economic conditions, the most important thing is three views. You like western food, he thinks you are pretentious, he likes to eat flies, and you think he has no taste. Actually, there's nothing wrong with both of you. What is wrong is that you have a different opinion. It's better to leave early to find the right person than to be together.

Treat love, I hope everyone can keep a serious attitude, don't hold hands casually, and don't let go easily. After all, lovelorn things hurt people and hurt themselves, and that taste is too uncomfortable.