The police restored the chat records of the two defendants in the "Chongqing brother and sister falling from the building". What caused this tragedy?

This tragedy stems from the woman's emotional manipulation of the man. A psychologist once wrote a book about emotional manipulation. The name of this book is Gas Lamp Effect. The gaslight effect means that she distorts the other party's value judgment by constantly denying it, so that the other party recognizes his value judgment, and then does something that she knows is wrong. In this incident, she used various ways to use the weakness and self-sacrifice of girls to stimulate the man's desire for protection and inspire boys to do some immoral things. But in the end, the mentality of these two people is not very sound, and they both have certain personality defects, otherwise, this kind of thing would not have happened at all.

It can be seen from their phone records that they have regarded these two children as imaginary enemies. They feel that these two children are the biggest obstacle on their way to happiness and must be made to disappear. As a woman, she is threatening to make men listen to her, and men who lack basic sense of responsibility will give in in order to pursue the happiness in their dreams. According to the news report behind the woman, her family is very rich, but family wealth is different from family health or family happiness. I think women should always be strict in family education. Maybe her parents carried out a big education, and then she didn't have a correct self-awareness. She needs external feedback to feel her real existence, which also leads her to manipulate others all the time, and then let others continue to pay like this, so that she can realize herself.

According to the client, the woman of the two forced the man to submit by cutting his wrist. Psychologically, this character is extremely inferior. They even feel that they should not exist in this world. They may feel that the meaning or value of the whole world exists because of their extremely contradictory psychology, which leads to certain psychological distortion. After distortion, they hope to gain a sense of self-satisfaction by manipulating others. From the phone records, we can see that the woman in the story is actually an obvious emotional manipulation, that is, through intimidation or threats.

Besides, they are very self-centered. They may look normal or even positive, but this positive appearance is just to cover up their fears. They want to control everything and hope that everything is under their control. In real life, we must stay away from people who have a strong desire for control, or who are extremely inferior and want to suppress others to get their own pleasure.