If he really loves you, will he not return your message for a long time?

If he really loves you, will he not return your message for a long time? Feelings are the most taboo against breaking the law. When she knows that she can't do it, she knows that you have been waiting for his response on the display screen, but still turned a deaf ear. Does this affect your performance? As long as you are a little distressed by your experience, you won't stay silent for a day and a night, like colleagues and friends, not to mention people who love you. Indeed, everyone is busy, but they also have time to go to the toilet for dinner. Even if I don't have time to chat, I always have time to add the words "Baby, I'm busy".

It is always the same to inform in advance or reply later. Because more often, what information brings is not spiritual, but a kind of peace of mind between two people who care about each other. But when he doesn't even bother to give you this peace of mind, it means that he doesn't care about your negative experience at all. What's even more frightening is that he didn't reply to your message-on the contrary, he can calmly deal with a disappointed and sad you, his own problems and the harm he brought you, and he doesn't feel guilty or stressed at all.

But in front of a person who really loves you, what sense of belonging and empathy is not taken, but he gives it on his own initiative. Naturally, for many male compatriots in intimate relationships, the reason for "not returning messages" always seems to be sufficient. I didn't look at my mobile phone, I was busy at work and slept at home. In fact, the greater the support, the more it shows that love itself is easily defeated by this reason.

In short, it is not enough love. Similarly, there are still many seemingly reasons in the cognition that boys don't love you enough. In fact, grandiose personal behavior is a bluff, but how careless it is in this relationship.

There is indeed a difference between good temper and impatience, but dealing with different people is also different. A boy cherishes you fully and is really afraid of losing you, so he will be more careful and bear more. However, those who use intimacy and pride, those who use their high power and necessity to make you sad, and those who punish you through their own mentality can only say that they are not so afraid of losing you, let alone caring about your experience. In the same person, empathy is not fixed, but it deals with different types of relationships and has different levels.

People who love you will also have unparalleled perception of you. Your pain will even be magnified many times on him. On the contrary, in intimate relationships, I will confront you everywhere and stamp my foot if I have any disagreement. My first reaction will always be self-preservation, instead of communicating hand in hand, at the expense of hurting your boy, no matter how well he behaves every day, in fact, he certainly doesn't love you.

Private space and a sense of boundary are the needs of the human genome, but excessive demand for this dominant position in intimate relationships is more likely to have other purposes. Lovers, as their closest partners, should have gained more necessity and uniqueness than others-when boys demand their three-dimensional sense and sense of boundary, which limits girls' right to gain uniqueness, they usually have another purpose, or just think that girls are not picky. However, between normal couples, most of them will reach the most suitable point acceptable to each other, negotiate and have quantity. Within the scope of their own commitments, either party can give the other a relatively stable conclusion.