After the cold war, men contacted me.

It is normal for men to have a cold war. Women don't want it, and neither do men. This is because once a man realizes that he has made a mistake, he will take the initiative to contact a woman and even take the initiative to save it. However, women always feel that men do not understand themselves, but are gradually alienating and snubbing themselves. Once two people have conflicts, men often take the initiative to talk to women, but women always feel that they have so many advantages and are not loved by men. ..... However, if this continues, it will easily lead to problems in the relationship between husband and wife. ..... leading to the intensification of contradictions and the breakdown of husband and wife's feelings. .....

First, emotional problems.

When two people are together, there will always be various contradictions. At this time, if a man ignores you, or you think a man becomes indifferent to you, it will easily lead to his depression and listlessness, thus giving the other party an illusion that the other party has not cared about you for a long time and has left you. He will be depressed because of disappointment, don't want to talk, and don't know how to express it. ...... So, don't blame all the problems on each other at this time. You can give him emotional counseling, make him realize that he has a problem, and he will take the initiative to contact you when the problem is solved. ..... And men often don't want to talk because of emotional problems, and they don't want to express their thoughts, while women feel emotional because they think their husbands are indifferent to them. ..... Both of them don't want to talk, but they don't want to express everything. At this time, you will make men feel impatient and have a cold war mentality. You just want to vent your bad mood by losing your temper. ..... So, after a broken relationship, a woman must not lose her temper and say that she doesn't want to talk about it, which will make a man more deeply aware of what she did wrong. ..... So we must resolutely correct such a wrong way of communication in order to fundamentally solve the problem. .....

Second, the problem of demand.

This sense of need is a woman's possessiveness of men in her feelings, so that men will have a sense of value to themselves. If a woman doesn't want to feel valuable to a man, he will think you are worthless to him. ..... In fact, this is the most common mistake made by many women in love relationships. ..... If in this relationship, the woman doesn't want her husband to have his own ideas, the man will feel wronged and the woman can't accept his behavior, which will lead to conflicts between husband and wife. ..... So how to solve it? In the consultation, we will have corresponding countermeasures for this problem for reference. ..... When a man sends you a message saying "I love you", you should pay attention to a better tone, because women don't really want to quarrel with you at this time; And when a man sends you a message saying "I love you very much", we can also respond to each other with body language: "I love you!" "I really love you!"

Third, the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious

The reason why men want the cold war is mainly because when women don't realize this, men will start to reflect on themselves, even fantasize about women, and even take the initiative to find this woman. But the more a man does this, the more a woman wants to get back, because she doesn't want to listen to him anymore. But men still have illusions about women and even take the initiative to talk to women. But men actually know that they have made a mistake, so they will reflect on why they don't understand women so much, so they can recover. In this way, two people are more likely to have conflicts and their feelings will become weaker and weaker. So in order to save the relationship between husband and wife, men need to take the initiative to communicate with me. ..... The man took the initiative to contact me and proposed to get back together, which actually showed that there were contradictions between you and there was no way to solve them through communication. ..... So if a woman hasn't found a proper way to communicate and resolve conflicts after saving the relationship between husband and wife, you need to find a suitable place for yourself and two people to coexist before saving it, so as to better save your relationship. .....