A letter to my daughter-in-law who wants a divorce. I am the mother-in-law and I miss her?

If the daughter-in-law wants a divorce and the mother-in-law is very reluctant to give up, she can write a letter to express her emotions, or she can provide guidance on the reasons for the divorce, mediate the conflicts between the husband and wife, and ease the divorce mentality. Although it is said that both marriage and divorce should be voluntary by both men and women, and others should not force marriage or dissolve the marriage relationship. But there will be disputes in every family life. If the situation is understandable, the two parties can make peace through mediation. Of course, in this case, the mother-in-law acts as a mediator to mediate the conflicts between the two parties. If you choose to divorce, there are only two ways to divorce, divorce by agreement or divorce by litigation. When divorce by agreement, both parties reach an agreement on divorce, child support issues, marital and property division issues, etc. and then sign a written divorce agreement* **Go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through divorce procedures together. If an agreement cannot be reached, one party can file for divorce in court. After mediation or trial, the court will issue a mediation or judgment to dissolve the marriage relationship between the two parties.

Legal Basis

Civil Code

Article 1046: Marriage is voluntary. Marriage must be completely voluntary for both men and women. It is prohibited for either party to do anything to the other. be forced and no organization or individual is allowed to interfere.

Article 1059. Duty of husband and wife to support each other. Husband and wife have the obligation to support each other.

The party who needs support has the right to require the other party to pay support when the other party fails to perform his support obligations.

Article 1066. Division of property between husband and wife during the subsistence of the marriage. During the subsistence of the marriage, if one of the following circumstances occurs, either spouse may apply to the People's Court for division*** Same property:

(1) One party hides, transfers, sells, destroys, squanders the same property as husband and wife, or forges the debts of the same property as husband and wife, etc., which seriously damages the interests of the same property as husband and wife. ;

(2) One party has a legal obligation to support a person who suffers from a serious illness and needs medical treatment, and the other party does not agree to pay the relevant medical expenses.

Article 1076: If both spouses agree to divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement should state the intention of both parties to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property and debt settlement.