Is it meaningful to send blessing messages in groups during festivals?

Your so-called blessing is just a self-righteous interruption.

Such a blessing is too cheap. It's cheaper than a dollar of bread. )

Blessing is etiquette, but now many people are annoyed and even disgusted with the blessing of the group.

Some people think that collective blessing is a meaningless and boring behavior.

Some people think that it is laborious and troublesome to reply to the mass blessing.

Others think it's good to send you, so hypocritical!

Among the public blessings, holiday wishes and birthday wishes are more common.

Holiday wishes are the most common.

It's really unnecessary to copy online holiday wishes and send them to a large number of people. In this age of advanced information, who can't see whether your blessing is plagiarism or originality?

Editing my own blessings and sending them to a large number of people, some because of work needs, and some are purely personal preferences, which is much better than plagiarism. However, such a universal oil blessing can make people feel a little sincere?

During the Chinese New Year, there are often many people who need blessings, but it is not the only way to be black.

The following four ways are suitable for most people in most cases:

The first kind, minimalist blessing.

Don't send anything, or just send a dynamic blessing to everyone in your circle of friends. In this way, at least you don't have to take the time to delete one by one after being blessed by the group. (most suitable for ordinary festivals)

Second, build a blessing group.

Bring a group of relatives and friends in from a circle, send blessings to each other in the group, and send red packets together to grab red packets. Convenient, relaxed and pleasant. (Best for Chinese New Year)

Third, selective blessing.

Only send it to friends and relatives who have good relationships and contacts, and people who communicate frequently at work, and edit their exclusive wishes with your heart. The relationship is average, and I don't usually contact much. If you send a blessing, others may not read it, so don't waste your time and energy. (Suitable for Chinese New Year and festivals of specific groups)

Fourth, the most wanted blessing.

Call or video the people closest to you who care about you. Tell me about the recent situation and send my best wishes. Time is not long, but it can express one's mind and enhance feelings. (Suitable for any convenient time)

Birthday wishes are few, but they have the greatest influence.

Personally, I hate sending birthday wishes in groups, especially the function of QQ group birthday wishes. I experienced it personally the other day.

That day happened to be my birthday, and I was very popular, looking forward to other people's blessings.

At least I read the WeChat message, that's it. Without beautiful language and flowery rhetoric, it is simple and sincere to add "Happy Birthday" to the usual title.

But I don't know what to say about the blessing on QQ.

Many people who haven't contacted for hundreds of years, or even don't know each other at all, sent birthday wishes from QQ nickname+default template.

However, if I am lucky, I feel that someone always comes to bless me sincerely, so I patiently read one by one. It took me almost half an hour to read all the blessings.

Then give up completely, especially all QQ group sending!

But what should I do? Blessing must have a response. On the one hand, I answered unhappily in my heart, on the other hand, I sent a group of blessings and jumped out. The more I answer, the more uncomfortable I feel. When I finished replying, it was almost another hour.

A good birthday, isn't this a waste of time and an obstacle to me?

Birthday wishes can be sent by message, phone call or video. Form is not important, what matters is intention!

Birthdays are not like festivals. In personal communication circles, not many people will spend the same day. Besides, how many people need your birthday wishes to get rid of strangers who seldom come and go?

For the blessed, the most special day is once a year. You don't want to take a snack and send a sincere blessing, don't you?

Mass messaging does bring us a lot of convenience, such as collective notification and arrangement of work tasks, but there is no need to be opportunistic for blessing.

Blessing is a kind of heartfelt good wishes to others. No matter how small the blessing is, the other party should feel sincere.

If you are lazy or convenient, you can not send it at all! Wouldn't it be more convenient not to send anything? Believe me, people will not feel any discomfort because they didn't receive your mass blessing, but will feel happier because they didn't receive a harassing text message.

Finally, end with an old story:

Once upon a time, a royal nobleman gave a banquet to entertain foreign guests. The dinner was luxurious and ostentatious. At the end of the banquet, the waiter brought two pots of water to wash his hands. The foreign guests mistakenly thought it was for drinking and drank it all at once. All the onlookers were stunned. Only the host smiled heartily and drank clear water, and then all the guests were happy.

What is a gift? It is a gift that makes people feel comfortable and will not be unhappy.

Note: The ending story is written by Xiao Bin.