My predecessor sent me greetings during the Spring Festival. Do you want to come back?

1, this is not so much the last blessing as the last retention. This will only increase each other's disgust. Why?

2. If you are still hesitant to send a blessing message after sending it, or the other party's response is good or bad, then you have missed many opportunities that you can seize and many opportunities that you can change!

In fact, when we just broke up so sensitively, the other party was not stupid. He can detect which are true feelings and which are false feelings. With the other person's long-term understanding of you, he doesn't believe you can let go. You just want to attract each other's attention through words. Even for him, such a blessing is just putting pressure on him, implying that I am so good to you, and you will never find someone who thinks I am so good to you!

4. For example, I wish you find someone who loves you more than me in the future!

5. So, no matter what the other person's response is, he is just testing your consistency, seeing if you are a person who is consistent in words and deeds, and seeing if you will change!

6. After the message is sent, if the other party doesn't give you a good response, you will have negative emotions and hope to get a good response from the other party, which may increase your sense of need and may do something that annoys the other party, such as asking the other party to be a lover and refusing to face the fact that you and the other party are no longer lovers. If the other person gives you a good response, you will think that you have the opportunity to contact each other as a lover. However, in fact, the other person just wants to get along with you as a friend, leaving you a window to observe and pay attention to your behavior and see if you will change!

7. If you have so much time to make unnecessary guesses, why not change yourself, improve yourself and give yourself more chips to recover? At this time, you don't have to guess, just test the other person's reaction directly!