What should my husband do if he wants a divorce?

What should you do if your husband wants a divorce? Speaking of divorce, many people are familiar with it. The relationship between husband and wife is broken, but there are still some situations that make the couple in a dilemma. What should you do?

1, we must first understand the reasons for divorce.

First of all, you have to find out what causes two people to get along. At this time, you can take measures to save your marriage. Then we should start with why two people have feelings for each other and feel that life is not so boring. Then two people can negotiate to solve this problem.

2. communicate first.

When the other party asks for a divorce, the most important thing is to communicate with the other party and clearly tell the other party what they want. Why does the other party want to divorce you? You have to understand that this is a contradiction between two people. Only by solving the contradiction first can the other party's dissatisfaction with himself be solved.

3. If you are caught off guard by the intervention of a third party, ask for help in time.

For the intervention of a third party, sometimes, you may have found out the other party's cheating behavior, but you may not have found out that the other party is having an affair. If you find that your husband is having an affair with someone else, you must show your attitude and position to the other party in time. You can call him or send a message on your own initiative; You can reason with him; You can tell him all kinds of emotional problems such as difficulties and bitterness in your marriage; You can ask him to help your marriage; You can also ask a third party to teach yourself and your children a lesson. If you can give him enough time to think calmly about the crisis he is facing and put forward his own views at different levels, then he will certainly forgive you. When you reach an agreement with a third party, you will mediate and handle their relationship to a certain extent. If the other party is willing to make up with you, then you can mediate with them; If he refuses to reconcile or reconcile, then you can file a civil lawsuit and ask the other party to compensate for the loss or injury caused by the extramarital affair. But be sure to let the third party know that he has broken up with you peacefully during the negotiation and mediation.

You can solve the problem through divorce, but this is also the best way.

If the relationship between husband and wife is broken, or just some minor contradictions, it can be solved through litigation divorce, but this is also the best way. Article 37 of China's Marriage Law stipulates that husband and wife have the obligation to be faithful and respect each other. Among them, if the party who fails to fulfill this obligation asks for divorce or damages, if the woman does not provide any evidence to prove that the man is at fault, including bigamy and marrying others, it is likely that the woman will not agree to divorce the man. Therefore, if the relationship between the two parties is broken, they don't want to divorce, or they have reached an agreement through consultation, they can solve the problem through divorce.