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Savoring a famous book carefully, I think everyone has a new understanding and view of life. At this time, how can the most critical feeling of reading fall! But how to write the feeling after reading? The following is my collection of the best parents' feelings after reading, for reference only. Let's have a look.

Be the best parent's thoughts on reading 1 Recently, the time for reading is getting less and less pitiful, and it is always crowded into the air before going to bed. Because of many bad habits of children, I feel that I am really an unqualified mother. Li Zhenxi's Being the Best Parent, lying in the study, is smiling at me. I have spent time reading it carefully these days.

Teacher Li Zhenxi believes that every child can become a success! This book mainly takes my daughter's education as a case, and expounds all aspects of family education: early childhood enlightenment education, good habit cultivation in primary schools, good personality shaping, adolescent education, guidance of learning methods, tempering of strong will, transcending the "generation gap", cultivation of reading habits, edification of traditional culture, broad-minded expansion, and caring for senior three ... providing rich cases and details for children's family education at all stages.

Although this book is a family education material, I think it is good for the growth of our educators and children in our class.

Teacher Li Zhenxi's Notes: A Suggestion;

1, write a growth diary for the child from the first day of his birth.

2. The education of love should be the earliest and most important enlightenment lesson for children.

3. Cultivate children's working habits from an early age.

4. Develop children's intelligence in unconscious entertainment.

5. Pay attention to inspire children's imagination.

Teacher Li Zhenxi's Note 2 suggests:

1, the elderly should not only be the nanny of their children, but also be their friends and teachers.

2. We should grasp the scale of "love" in the education of future generations.

Young parents and old people should have the same requirements for their children.

Teacher Li Zhenxi's notes have three suggestions:

1, for children who have just entered primary school, it is the first important thing to protect their interest, confidence and happiness in learning.

2. Work out the rules of study and life with children, and then implement them persistently, and gradually turn the rules into habits.

Never force your child to attend various talent training classes and remedial classes on weekends.

4. Cultivate children's interest in reading and edify children with books.

Let the children wash the dishes of the whole family after dinner every night.

Teacher Li Zhenxi's notes have four suggestions:

1, the sooner you get into good habits, the better.

2. The formation of good habits requires necessary compulsory training.

Parents should influence their children with their good habits.

4. Appropriate use of rewards or punishments.

Teacher Li Zhenxi's notes have five suggestions:

1. Don't simply blame your child for his failure.

2. Be good at discovering the "commanding heights of dignity" embodied in a certain aspect of children.

3. Show and publicize the outstanding advantages of children in a certain way.

4, in order to encourage, sometimes appropriate "lies" may wish to talk about.

Feeling:

Attach importance to early education: parents are also educators, and their behavior is of educational significance to children. Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on children, so parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children. When we entrust the responsibility of caring for the elderly to our children, the elderly are not only "nannies" who take care of the children, but also should grasp the scale of "love" and be friends with the children.

The whole family should be consistent with the requirements of educating children. However, I think most ordinary children are not so lucky to meet such a good husband and mother as Mr. Li Zhenxi. They educate their children better than Mr. and Mrs. Li Zhenxi. Their education of Li Zhenxi's daughter paved the way for Li Qingyan's future growth, whether in early intellectual development or habits.

It is also necessary to record children's growth footprints, which can be used as a kind of life education for children to feel the care of their parents during their growth, and also as a resource for children's self-education.

Pay attention to the cultivation of children's habits: for children, the happiness of learning is more important than academic performance, so we should pay attention to protecting children's happiness of learning. But it is important that children should form good habits in primary school. After discussing with your child to make some rules, you should strictly use the rules agreed by your child, even if you need some compulsory training sometimes.

I think the most important of these habits is that we can't always forgive ourselves with "carelessness" and think that all mistakes are caused by our own carelessness. I think if we are proficient in knowledge, we can know the answer with our eyes closed.

It is also important not to delay. I'm not particularly strict with children. Others let them finish the task in a certain period of time, so they have developed the habit of dragging their tails.

Another habit is the habit of reading. In primary school, the most important thing for children is reading habits. Everyone knows the benefits of reading. Children don't like reading.

Thinking about being the best parent II. I was lucky enough to read the book Being the Best Parent written by Mr. Li Zhenxi under the recommendation of my school teacher. After reading it, I was deeply touched. On the one hand, I am gratified that I have similarities with the author in the process of growing up with my children. On the other hand, I also feel deeply guilty for my lack and inappropriateness in the ways and means of educating children. Guilt aside, I will seriously study the "art" that Mr. Li Zhenxi grew up with his daughter, not seeking to be the really best parents, but determined to be better parents.

"Sometimes the encouragement of parents or teachers will ignite the confidence in children's hearts." This is a sentence written by the author in The First Frustration of Tolerance for Children. As a parent of a senior two student, I have a deep understanding of this sentence. I remember Yingjie had the same experience as my daughter in the first grade of primary school-he only got more than 80 points in the first math exam, which was the last in the class. When he came home and handed me the test paper, I felt extremely uncomfortable in my heart, but on second thought, although the child was among the best in height, after all, he had only been in school for a few days and just turned six. I was afraid that my emotions would affect the child, so I quickly said to him, "Yingjie is great. Today, the teacher called my mother. If you listen to the teacher carefully in class and do the questions more carefully, so much the better! " In fact, I didn't talk to the teacher at all, just wanted to encourage him. The next day, I naively received a phone call from the math teacher Dong, saying that I would give classes to my children after school in the afternoon and pick them up later. When I was at school, the teacher was still tutoring them. I heard Teacher Dong say from time to time outside, "Well, how clever! Great! Think again ... "Hearing the teacher's encouragement, I suddenly realized that it was right not to criticize the child the day before. This was verified in a later period of time. Except the one I remember vividly-last year's class calligraphy competition made me feel grateful to Mr. Zhu. That day, Yingjie came home and opened her schoolbag. She took out a page with "Song Qing" on it and showed it to me. She asked me if my writing was good. As soon as I saw it, it was really well written, much better than my usual homework, so I simply answered him, "Well written! But why did you tear it off? " He replied to me: "Because there was a writing contest in our school today, when I handed it to the teacher, the teacher said that you could actually write better, so I wrote another page for the teacher to bring back." As a result, he won the second prize. To this end, I am very grateful to Mr. Zhu, because the teacher's sentence: "In fact, you can write better" gave Yingjie great confidence in writing. In the later days, his handwriting gradually improved, and he couldn't help but be more serious when writing new words every day.

When I read the book "Record Life, Record Education", I felt deeply ashamed, regretted and blamed myself. Because, I personally took my child to my mother-in-law when he was eight months old, and didn't take me to my side until he was almost three years old when he went to kindergarten. Therefore, the bits and pieces he learned to walk, eat and talk are blank in my memory. In retrospect, I have no regrets. What makes me regret and blame myself more is that I didn't stay with his father and me during that time, didn't give him a sense of security, didn't teach him how to count, and didn't teach him how to recognize everything he thought was curious. As a result, when the children received us, they didn't like to talk for a long time and were particularly timid. When you see a stranger, you hide. When you criticize him, you lower your head and ignore others, saying nothing. Although I have improved since I went to kindergarten, I am still shy now. After reading the book "Being the Best Parent", I said to myself: "Children will never be separated from their parents again before they become adults!"

I was always annoyed that Yingjie always dawdled when doing his homework. Although he finishes his homework every day, he often drags his feet and sometimes writes it late. I have told him many times to cherish time, time and opportunity are the truth that will never return, but it has no effect. This time, I read the book "Being the Best Parent", and reached an agreement with my children, and made a reward and punishment method for this semester's study. If the homework is completed quickly and well, it will be rewarded, and if it is delayed, it will be punished.

Here, on behalf of all parents, I sincerely thank the teacher for recommending the book "Being the Best Parent" to us parents, and also thank Mr. Li Zhenxi for sharing his ways and means of educating children, setting an example for new parents and teaching us many good methods and experiences of being a good parent. thank you

Thoughts on being the best parent 3. Thank you, Mr. Xiao, for sparing no effort to educate children and help parents improve their education. From then on, he specially recommended an excellent family education book-"Being the Best Parent" to the parents in our class. This book is a summary of the successful experience of family education. After reading this book, I learned a lot of excellent educational ideas. These educational experiences and life experiences have provided me with many references on how to solve children's educational problems. After reading this book, I have some experiences to share with you:

First, parents and children's first teacher

Most parents leave their children to their teachers, and everything will be fine. The child's affairs are completely pushed to the teacher, and the teacher is also a teacher. Also euphemistically called to the teacher. We can rest assured that as long as it is for the good of our children, we will beat and scold casually, without favoritism and absolute support. I have met many such parents. I think I have joined these parents since my children entered school, but I didn't know it. I often sigh: I can educate other people's children well, but I can't do anything about my own children. After reading this book, I feel guilty: I am shirking my responsibility. Parents should raise children, not only children, but also children. It is not only about food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also about how to grow up. Parenting begins with the child's first cry, and we become the child's first teacher-the first teacher. We educate our children every moment of our lives. How to dress, how to pay attention to other people's conversations, how to talk about other people's affairs, how to express joy and unhappiness, how to treat friends and enemies, how to express pain and anger ... imperceptibly affect children's growth, unconsciously act as educators, go on with children, and grow up with children. Don't give up halfway When the children go to school, the educational task is completely handed over to the teacher. The child is not a baton, but a stone that needs carving. It takes the efforts of parents and the excavation of teachers to become a world-famous work. Parents are lifelong teachers of children. He is also a teacher who will accompany him all his life. The cultivation of children is an endless and arduous process, which requires unremitting watering with love, never giving up, and adding with love.

Second, there is a line, and the heart remains the same.

"Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang", and good habits are the key to ensure that the road of life goes along the right track. Sowing behavior, harvesting habits; Sowing habits, harvesting character; Sow character and reap fate. Habit is the foundation of life and the source of virtue. Letting children form good habits and have a sound personality will give them a happy life. The cultivation of behavior habits and abilities depends on long-term accumulation and persistence. In this process, parents must first have perseverance. Habit is an enhanced behavioral memory. Only by constantly repeating and persisting, maintaining good behavior and correcting possible mistakes in time can we form good habits.

Third, build up confidence and have happiness.

Before learning to walk, every child is an optimist who is happy all day. Children will not show self-confidence, frown and boredom when learning languages and toddlers. Because of the patient teaching of parents who are bored over and over again when learning a language, parents walk slowly step by step with their hands on their hands when learning a language. There will never be parents who cover their faces and curse their children because they can't learn a word or two, and there will never be parents who pull them all the way when they just learn to walk.

But why do children become timid, unconfident, bored and cringe later? That's because as parents, we no longer have the patience and normality when children learn to talk and walk. In our eyes, children should be top-notch, study should be easy, and exams should be 100. Such a formalistic mentality makes it impossible for us to bear that our children's test scores are lower than others, they do things slower than others, and they can't learn things over and over again, so they get angry with their children, yell at them, criticize them, scold them, and compare them with "other people's children." Repeated blows and fear of failure deprive children of their self-confidence and make them lose their childhood happiness.

Teacher Li Zhenxi told us that to be the best parents, we should cultivate children's self-confidence and make them happy. To do this, we must have a normal mind, affirm the child's achievements, exaggerate his glory and pride, encourage the child with kind words, accept failure, and soothe the child's injured heart in time. Look at the advantages and disadvantages of children objectively, and look at achievements and failures objectively. You should know that progress is compared with your own yesterday, as long as you are the best yourself. "Overcoming yourself and striving to be the best of yourself is the greatest happiness!"

As parents, all our efforts and efforts are for children to have a happy life, and all education is inseparable from this original intention. We are all on the way to achieving this goal. If there are thousands of parents in Qian Qian in the world, let's grow up with our children, surpass us yesterday and be the best ourselves!

Thoughts on being the best parent 4. A fiery heart, a pair of cold eyes, a pair of diligent hands, two busy legs, a very free mood. This is a description of Liu Yong's life all the time. I have been reading his books recently, and more and more I find that there must be a wise parent behind an excellent child. Regardless of the identity of a writer and painter, from the letter he wrote to his son 1 16 to the educational diary he wrote to his daughter, it is found that the cultivation of excellent children is not overnight, but overnight. As a parent, how much do you know about children? Shame at the same time, I once again have a strong desire-I want to be a good mother.

For all parents, our desire for children is basically the same, that is, we hope that children will be healthy, happy and successful, and we hope that children will be happy. But the key question is, can we ensure that our children are healthy, happy and successful at the same time? If you can't have it at the same time, if you have to choose one of these words, how should you choose and arrange it? This question may not have been thought of by many people. We always gather all the best things together to form a dazzling future, put them there, and then let the children put on their dreams that turn into these words and carry heavy bags on the road. Do we think that children may lose happiness and health before they succeed in the process of sprinting forward? We didn't expect these things to appear in life at different times.

As Liu Yong himself emphasized, there is a theoretical background behind these plain words. When we constantly remind our children to study hard and study hard, have we overlooked the most important point? The real driving force for growth comes from inner wishes and demands? How can we keep our children motivated when we can't remind them all our lives? We all know that it is necessary to help children form good study habits, but how should we break this good habit down into one small goal after another, constantly realize and consolidate it, and finally become our own behavior habits and lifestyles? Do we know that helping children set goals at all stages and form strong self-discipline ability is an important path for children to succeed?

For everyone, being a parent is a natural thing, but being a good parent requires constant learning and reflection to do a good job. I remembered that sentence again. In the final analysis, the competition between children is the competition of parents' comprehensive quality. Looking back on ourselves and our friends around us, if we can use one word to describe the mentality of our parents today, I think it is anxiety. Looking at other people's children, thinking about your own children, for reality, for the future. But anxiety can't solve anything. In order to stop worrying, I think, relax and face the reality, and we will pay attention to it every day in the process. If we have a high-quality day, we may have a high-quality future.

Family education is very important for children. After reading these paragraphs, I can't help thinking of a group of lovely children in our class. How are they getting along at home? Did you make your parents angry? In the short message sent by the school newsletter on the first day of winter vacation, I sent it like this: Dear parents and friends! Today is the first day of winter vacation. Would you please wake up the child gently? Maybe he will stay in bed, maybe he will have a good time. But we should try to get used to it! Because children on holiday will relax! You can ask him how to do his homework. It doesn't matter whether he makes plans himself or you make plans for him. Be sure to post it for him to try! I'm really worried that my lovely children will be woken up by their parents on the first day of winter vacation and scolded by their parents. Children are children after all. If you don't see him for a long time, you will miss him. If you look at him for a long time, you will annoy him, because his various natures are mistaken for shortcomings. Ahem! Loving children is not just talking about love. This kind of love exists in many of our family education and has already existed, but how can a child who is used to your love at home obey your punishment! Talk to him and be good friends with him! Let's try it together! Let our children take the initiative to say: Mom and Dad, I want to tell you something that I am very happy or sad today. In this way, don't we know the child better and educate him at the right time!