He is in Beijing and I am in my hometown. He doesn't trust me easily and doesn't like to reply to messages. He said he just wanted to do it in his heart. What should I do in this case?

He said think about it! To be honest, this is great! Because I don't think anyone can see or touch it, it all depends on what he says. In fact, true love is manifested in action: he may not be sweet-mouthed, but he will buy you breakfast or pick you up after work, fearing that you will tell you the itinerary in advance or contact you as soon as possible ... at least he doesn't respect you because he doesn't love you! So girl, don't listen to what he says, but watch what he does. If he really doesn't care much about you, don't believe him even if he talks nonsense!