Because my wife said she wanted to divorce me after watching the European Cup.

Because my wife said she wanted to divorce me after watching the European Cup.

Hello doll, I want to ask how to deal with the problems in marriage:

The quarrel was caused by the European Cup. She kindly told me to watch the European Cup final together in the evening. At first, I felt good. Later, when I thought that she was in poor health recently, I said that it was most important for you to get better first. I was not so interested in the European Cup. She said, "Men who don't watch the ball are not men." I suddenly feel that she is asking me to take other people's standards and not recognize my personal ideas. I said an angry word: "I am not a man, absolutely." The only person who can watch the ball is a fake man, and she is also involved. She said, "If I had known, I might as well find a man." I was angry and didn't fight, and then we ignored each other all the way. In the evening, I texted her that I was wrong, but I still ignored it. I called her and even said that I would go out to the bar to watch the all-night game at night and not come back. What is this? In the evening, after she went home and took a shower, I resolutely refused to let her go out. Then we had a fight. She talked about divorce again. I was angry and yelled at her. It was a cold war all night. I don't think this is the way to go on in the early hours of the morning. I couldn't sing the song we were going to sing together at the wedding for over an hour. Finally, she said angrily that I was disgusting and noisy, and my heart was cold. Finally, I slept on the ground. Before I left, I asked if I was so speechless. I said I would live well, but she didn't want to, either she didn't live, or the cold war was over. In order to delay, I said I'd just live like this. She said "OK" and went to work. I'm really at the end of my rope. My wife is a kind-hearted knife mouth, but every time we are so hurt, how can we coax her back? How to live the rest of my life? We've only been married for two months, both born in the 1980s. . .

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Hello.

After reading this letter, I feel that the person who should write to ask me should not be you, but your wife. Isn't it a matter of personal will to watch the ball or not? Look if you want, but don't look if you don't want. How many women want to find a man who doesn't watch the ball? How many women will be heartbroken because of your relationship. If you don't watch the ball, it will be related to not being a man and then getting divorced, which shows that your relationship is quite fragile. The fragile body needs to be maintained, especially interpersonal relationships. The lesser of the two evils, so you need to give priority to the relationship rather than her physical condition. She is in poor health, doesn't she know? You'd better go to the ball game with her, drag her into the water, get sick once or twice, and go to the hospital for intravenous drip or something. This will not only show your foresight, but also be the best time to enhance your feelings. You said that when boys pursue girls, they always throw a basketball at each other, or ride a bicycle to knock them down, so they can't bear to let their children catch wolves. If you think about the other person, the other person may not want to appreciate it. It is better to do as she wishes and let her suffer.

On the other hand, I think there is a tendency to pay attention when quarreling. Many people say a lot of psychological words when they are "angry". For example, in your relationship, I think you may be a little weak or more feminine. This is the fuse of your whole relationship. For example, you want to call back the warmth in her heart and sing songs for her for an hour? God, you're not an oriole! As a man, when a woman shows her male hormones, she should be more masculine and overbearing than her, and don't be soft-hearted at critical times. For example, if she wants to find another man, you can kiss her, tease her, tease her and other things you know, and let her know that if she has something to say, she can talk. For example, if she wants to go out in the middle of the night, you tell her that as soon as you step out of this door, I will call your parents to let them know what my daughter has done, or throw her on the bed so that she can't go out.

At present, you can give her two days to calm down, then ask her out and tell her seriously, "I want to have a good life with you, but I can't stand an unstable marriage." Even if I want to go on with you all my life, I can't stand your divorce every day. If this continues, I will break up sooner or later. " If we are destined to be separated, let's go to the Civil Affairs Bureau while everyone is still young. It's better to get together than to leave, and I won't drag you to find a new home in your old age. If you don't really want a divorce, we will make up our minds to live a good life. When we go back today, we will pretend that nothing happened. I really want to spend my life with you, but every time I hold you, you throw me away. Once I treat you as a coquette, twice I treat you as a joke, but in this case, I can only take this as your deepest wish. It doesn't matter if I work hard. Love someone is to fulfill her, isn't it? "When this passage comes out, I think a normal woman who wants to live with you will reflect on herself, unless she has long wanted a divorce. If so, you have to prepare for the worst.

In the face of a partner who likes to talk about divorce, it is useless to calm her down. Even if you coax her back with humility, she will repeat the same question next time. Treating a divorced partner is like treating domestic violence. We must nip this phenomenon in the bud and it is necessary to solve it. The two sides should agree not to mention divorce casually, and they will be punished if they do. Don't worry, when she really divorced you, she didn't get any benefits, but lost a marriage history, and she will slowly start to reflect on herself. Being a man, especially a man, must have a bottom line, and let the other person know your bottom line. Treat that kind of woman with a knife mouth, let them suffer a little for their knife mouth, pay a little price and touch a little wall, and she will know how to repent. When she knows that no one is destined to be with another person, when she knows that no one will try to die, she must fight with her. She can't leave, she can't leave. When she knows that any relationship needs to be well maintained and watered by both sides. She will mature and become a woman, not a spoiled wayward little girl.