A note to your husband who betrayed you (a female colleague is such a note in her husband's WeChat)

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I saw a case on the Internet before: a man's evaluation of his girlfriend was "fluoxetine", the name of a drug for treating depression, which was ridiculed by netizens as "you are my life, and I would go crazy without you".

Not only in the era when social software was popular, but also in the early years when there was no social software such as WeChat, everyone only had old people. In those days when SMS was the only way, the contact information was still the same, and people who were important to them were given special names.

An important name like the note that the man wrote to his girlfriend above shows how important his girlfriend is to him. Between couples, between husband and wife, these details are beyond the reach of outsiders, let alone the parties.

However, if a man does not leave these touching or intimate nicknames to his girlfriend or wife, but to the opposite sex other than his girlfriend or wife, the nature will be different.

Some chicken thieves in love rat will realize the seriousness of this problem, so they will not leave any trace on WeChat after betraying their marriage. However, not all people who betray their marriage are so secretive. Some people don't realize this problem, and even if they do, they will make a big fuss about their speech because they are madly in love with each other.

At this time, the problem appeared. As long as the wife finds abnormal or disgusting traces such as WeChat notes on her husband's mobile phone, the man's behavior will be exposed. How the marriage develops next depends on the wife's attitude.

Yesterday, the chat between two friends in the group mentioned the above problems. My friend Xiaoya said:

"I accidentally saw such a woman on my husband's mobile phone last week, and the remark was' little cute'. I felt very uncomfortable after reading it, because the note he gave me only had my name, but it was so sweet to write a note to others.

I asked him who the other person was, and he said it was just a female colleague. I asked him why he left her a "cute" note, and he said that everyone in his company called her that, so he made a note conveniently.

Although I can't hear anything from his words, I just feel uncomfortable. I hate that he is so close to others. I asked him to change that sentence, and he changed it, comforting me, and I felt much better.

Today, however, when I accidentally looked at his mobile phone again, I found that he actually changed his remarks to "cute". My heart is very bad. I suspect that he betrayed me. I suspect that their relationship is anything but simple. He wouldn't listen to me. Does he have me in his heart? Now I'm confused and don't know what to do! 』

After reading Xiaoya's complaint, Xiaoke told her with her own personal experience that "the relationship between husband and female colleague is not simple, and it often begins with" modifying WeChat speech ". "Next, let's listen to XiaoKe experience:

"If a man is single, it is understandable to give a meaningful or intimate nickname to the person he likes. But if a man has a girlfriend or wife and gives other women intimate nicknames, there must be something wrong. I can say without hesitation that their relationship is definitely not simple.

The relationship between husband and female colleagues is not simple, and they often start with "modifying WeChat speech". Do not believe. What happened to you is exactly the same as mine. At that time, her ex-husband gave a female colleague a "little fool", which could never be a simple colleague relationship.

When I asked him, he said the same thing as you, saying that everyone in the company called her that. I don't believe it at all. I said "big fudge" and let it go, and "little fudge" just quit. There must be something fishy between them.

I have no evidence to prove that he betrayed his marriage, but he has been explaining it, so this matter was temporarily suppressed because he changed his speech.

However, time will tell. Then one day we went shopping together. I have a whim to eat ice cream. He pretended to be a good man and bought it for me. He left my mobile phone in his backpack because of something urgent. I heard the phone ring and took it out.

What I saw made me very chilling and disappointed. It's a message from "Little Fool", in which I affectionately call my husband my husband. I pretended to be my husband and talked to her about some sensitive topics. She confessed everything. I can't imagine how far they have developed.

When my stupid ex-husband wanted to pay, he found that he didn't have his mobile phone and couldn't scan the code. Besides, there are secrets in his mobile phone, so he keeps coming back to get them. I showed him my chat record with that "little fool" and then asked him for a divorce.

This kind of man is not a good thing. He just thinks his wife is a fool. But how can a man who really loves his wife get too close to another woman? How is it possible to judge other women as "little fools" and "cute"? This is obviously a blatant betrayal! Female colleagues are like this in her husband's WeChat.

Remarks, their relationship can't be pure! And don't bother him. Since you doubt him, investigate it yourself, and you will understand what is the relationship between him and that "little cute". However, I remind you to be mentally prepared, because betrayal in marriage is not a trivial matter. If you want to know what you should do in the future, the more you can't be impulsive at this time! 』

? If a man betrays his marriage, there must be evidence in his mobile phone! Some men may disdainfully say, "What you said in the above case is out of date. How can there be such a stupid person now? They know that their wife will look at the mobile phone, how can they leave traces on their notes! "

It's hard to say, because some men are completely crazy about love and can do anything stupid after betraying their marriage. Moreover, even if men are smart enough not to leave traces in these obvious places, they will be exposed sooner or later, because there is an indisputable fact: "If a man betrays his marriage, there must be evidence in his mobile phone!"

Although "anti-reconnaissance ability" can leave no trace, the problem is that truly capable men have strong self-control. They can't betray their marriage. Those who betray their marriage are incompetent idiots. They are not smart enough to "counter-spy" and can only play tricks at most.

Of course, this is not to ask women to check men's mobile phones all the time, which is not good. But when you find a man abnormal, when you suspect a man, when your marriage has problems similar to the above cases, it is necessary for you to check that man's mobile phone. If a man has no ghosts in his heart, he is not afraid of his wife checking his mobile phone. And if a man has a ghost in his heart, when you want to see his mobile phone, his reaction says it all. (Text/Donglin xi Pavilion, if you have a story, come to me)