How to save a cold man's text message

Q: How can I solve my emotional problems?

Maybe the road to recovery is difficult, but as long as you are willing to try, take that step and use some emotional skills to save her (him), I believe a miracle will happen.

If you also encounter emotional problems, you need to analyze the specific problems and make a recovery plan for you personally.

The message you want to save after breaking up: The message should be sent like this.

How should I send a text message to help recover after breaking up? What kind of short message will make the other party reply quickly? Even a short paragraph needs a little thought. If you want the other person to reply to you soon, you have to act.

You can try the following methods:

First, write short messages with high response rate. If the other party is relatively cold at present, and the other party certainly doesn't want to be harassed by you, then the content of your message can be simple and easy to understand, and you can't put pressure on the other party, otherwise the other party will get tired of you, for example, "I went to XXX (the place that the other party likes) for a trip, and it's really beautiful here. I bought postcards and sent them to some friends. Shall I send you a postcard? If the other person likes watching movies very much, you can say, "I went to see a movie yesterday, which was well worth seeing and had a good review." You might as well go and see it sometime. "This kind of message is easy for the other party to reply.

Second, the content of the newsletter is to ask for help from knowledge, not from others. The following is an example of seeking knowledge and others. "I seem to have a cold. Can you tell me what is the effective medicine you bought me before? " "I have a cold. Can you buy me something that I used to take very effectively? " These are two completely different sentences. The former means that you realize that you have broken up, so you can buy your own medicine and let him reply to you immediately. The latter is that you are still dependent on him, so the latter must not be sent, so that the other party will think about whether to reply to you or not, and will feel that it will cost you to buy medicine.

Third, the content is of interest to the other party. With your understanding of each other, you can say, "Your favorite XXX star is going to have a concert in XXX." . The content must be of interest to the other party, so that a pleasant topic can be started and the other party can reply to you happily.

Each of the above points is very important. When sending a text message, let the other party feel that your text message is not malicious and has no purpose of persecution. Don't write your feelings in a hurry. Look and feel like ordinary friends, simple content, no apologies and emotions.

The content of the short message is simple and clear, mixed with cheerful and optimistic atmosphere, so that the other party can reply happily. As long as the other party replies yes or no, at least you still have contact. Mastering skills will also help you recover, by going up one flight of stairs.

Losing each other, some people desperately bombard each other with text messages, and some people are struggling whether to send text messages to each other. If so, how should it be sent reasonably?

First, we should actively save the text messages of ex-boyfriends.

No one likes a person who is always too negative, that is to say, if a person is lively and cheerful all day, he will persevere in everything, so extroverts will always bring laughter to everyone. Who doesn't like it? He broke up with you. Every time you send a text message, it's to save it, but every time you send a text message, it's "I can't live without you. Without you, my world becomes so gloomy. Will you come back to me? " Wait a minute. Do you think you can accept a particularly offensive text message? Therefore, if you really want to get back your ex-boyfriend, your text message must be positive, and others will be happy for you when they hear it. For example, I feel that I have gained a lot of weight recently. Starting today, I will run to the gym every day ... don't think that being lovelorn is great. There are many lovelorn people in this world. Face life positively and learn to find beautiful things around you.

Second, saving your ex-boyfriend's text messages must resonate.

If you always send him messages that he is not interested in at all and the other party doesn't understand, he can completely block you and completely ignore you. You might say, then I'll send him something that interests him and send it to him. These can't arouse his curiosity or memory at all. Therefore, the short message you sent must be your common interest, belong to your common memory, or somewhere you have been and yearned for. This will resonate, not only attract his curiosity, but also enhance his memory and increase your topic.

Third, the other party must have no pressure to save her ex-boyfriend's text message.

Some people, in order to save each other, do everything they can to make them feel helpless, such as sending messages to tell each other that you are trying to find their relatives and friends, telling them that if you don't get back together, you will try to do something drastic and ask them to return all your belongings. These invisibly increase the pressure on the other side, and you invisibly put a lot of pressure on the other side. Whether you do it or not, you must never say these words. Once you say it, the other person has more reason not to be with you.