How can a woman with high emotional intelligence capture a man's heart?

It is not that the more you talk to boys, the more speculative you are, and the more likely you are to develop. You know, sometimes, it is very likely that you will fall into such three desperate situations because of your high-frequency active chat:

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Topic exhaustion

If you want to chat well with boys, chatting topics are naturally essential.

If you chat with boys, there is always no good topic, then you will lose the meaning of chatting itself, and in the long run, it will become a full-fledged chat.

If you chat with boys every day, you may not be bothered by this kind of problem at first, because you have done some homework and preparation before that.

However, the longer you talk, the more times you talk, and you will soon fall into the embarrassing situation of topic exhaustion and embarrassing chat.

Once this happens, you are not far from the end of the game.

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Let boys feel superior.

If you always talk to men frequently every day, you don't give boys opportunities and gaps to take the initiative to find you.

After a long time, boys will have a feeling that I don't have to do anything anyway. As long as the time comes, girls will come to me automatically.

This will unconsciously create a sense of superiority in the hearts of boys, which means that your relationship will become unequal from now on. He has been in a high position and has taken the initiative.

In this case, you will have one in the minds of boys? Absolutely safe? Then when a boy meets other attractive and challenging girls, he will of course give priority to interacting with other girls.

Because you are safe enough, there is no danger of getting lost at any time. Even if you can't seduce other girls, you will wait for him when you come back.

So you became the second child for ten thousand years? Commonly known as a long-term spare tire, when a goddess appears around a boy, he will of course choose to ignore you.

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Make boys feel annoyed.

Long-term high-frequency chatting will make boys feel irritable.

Why is this happening? Because long-term high-frequency chat will consume the mystery and freshness between boys and you.

Just like you think something is interesting, such as painting, but if you turn painting into your daily work, you have to complete dozens of line drawings every day. Do you think painting is not so interesting, but it is a boring burden?

Similarly, it is interesting for a boy to talk to you once or twice, but if you talk to him for a long time, he will only feel tired and bored.

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How can I chat with boys correctly? To sum up in a simple sentence: keep a sense of mystery and don't expose it frequently.

When interacting with boys, don't be too active and enthusiastic, and don't let boys think you are too eager. He already ate you.

If you want a boy to like you, you can't spend all your thoughts on him, but try to increase your attraction.

Don't contact boys too often, leave some free space between you and boys, and give yourself some time to recharge.

Don't tell the whole story frequently in a short time. You must learn to take your time.

For example, seven days a week, four days of which you chat with a boy, then the remaining three days, you should properly cut off contact with him and keep a sense of mystery.

But at the same time, please remember to send some messages in your circle of friends to show your colorful life. Let the boy know that you can live a rich life without him, and there are many high-value aspects that he doesn't know.

At this time, if a boy likes you and cares about you, it goes without saying that he will come to you actively.