A woman living alone receives an inexplicable text message video.

We should not think that the world is hell, but neither should we think that the world is Eden. Sin will not stop, and neither will our prevention. Many times, because girls are weak and beautiful, they will become the most wanted targets of gangsters. What we should do is remind ourselves of the existence of evil people; Hold the border and be kind to others.

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There are 200 million single young people in China.

This is the big data just released by the State Council.

In other words, there are 200 million young people of marriageable age in China, but no one is married.

Everyone stays in cities of different sizes and lives his own life according to his own way of life.

Population experts sigh:

A new social form is coming.

The traditional group warming is turning to the gathering of individual-oriented free people.

This is really good news for the post-90 s, post-00 s and post-85 s who are troubled by marriage promotion.

But today I want to tell you a problem that cannot be ignored, and that is the danger of living alone.

Especially the danger of girls living alone.

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I saw a news not long ago.

It is said that there is a girl in Changsha, probably very cute. Suddenly one day, I received this message on my mobile phone.

The other party said:

Do you live on 16 floor?

Let me hold you for one night, okay?

Never sneak into your house in the middle of the night. The door is on the left of 16 floor. ......

You don't have a boyfriend. I know everything you've done. ......

This conversation is really scary.

In other words, it was no accident that the girl in Changsha received the text message, but someone had been spying on her for a long time, and she began to harass boldly after learning that she lived alone.

It's hard to imagine what kind of harm a girl will suffer if the other person sneaks in at night without dying.

What kind of despair will the girl fall into if the other party brings the tools for committing crimes, ambushes at the girl's door and pushes her into the door when she opens the door?

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There is a news on Tencent's video, which is an answer to this hypothesis.

A girl living alone in Quanzhou, Fujian Province was also targeted by gangsters.

One night, someone knocked at the door.

The other party said, "I'm a courier."

The girls didn't give any warning, nor did they predict that the danger would happen immediately.

She flung open the door.

As soon as she opened the door, the gangster immediately hugged her and pulled her hard.

The girl instinctively resisted, screaming wildly and struggling to escape.

But how can a weak woman earn more than a tall man?

The man hugged her waist hard, pushing and pulling for a while.

In the process, the girl was dragged into the room many times, but she still grabbed the door with her hand and shouted for help.

In this way, after several rounds of sawing, she was exhausted, but she still struggled to escape from danger with all her strength.

Because she knows that as long as she goes in, the consequences will be unimaginable.

The girl's cry for help finally alarmed the residents.

Just then, an aunt next door came to have a look.

"What are you doing?"

The man still didn't stop, still pulling the girl out. It was not until the aunt began to help the girl and threatened to call the police that the girl left in a daze.

It was really scary.

We always think of ourselves as dangerous insulators. In fact, if you are not careful, you will be targeted by evil and become a victim.

We always think that the world is bright and peaceful and there is no conspiracy, but in fact, if we are not careful, we will step into the land of extinction.

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There is also a piece of news that is more closely related to every girl.

Taking the elevator is something we do every day.

But few people know that many dangers occur in elevators.

In the video, a slim girl in white is waiting for the elevator in the community.

A man in black also came in with her.

This is normal.

But in this normal thing, ambush is very risky.

The girl vaguely felt that something was wrong at this time.

She stole a look to the right and noticed that the man behind her was approaching.

As soon as the elevator door closed, the man in black jumped on her, pushed her against the elevator wall and molested her in every way.

This kind of thing happened in the dark elevator, which is really called daily and invalid.

Later, the elevator reached the fifth floor and the door opened. It's time for the girl to escape.

She tried to rush out. But he was pulled back to the elevator by a strong man and continued to ravage.

We can guess how scared and desperate she is.

But as long as the elevator is stuck on that floor, no one will enter and no one will hear her cry for help.

I don't know how long it took, but finally someone noticed and came to the rescue.

If no one comes, the girl may be dragged to the dead corner of the stairs, or forced to open the door, resulting in more serious consequences.

It is incredible that gangsters are so bold in broad daylight.

The most terrible thing is that this kind of thing is not a special case.

This is another surveillance video.

We can see the girl pressing the elevator alone.

Who can think what will happen at this moment? !

A man in black suddenly rushed in, jumped on her and attacked her chest.

After all kinds of indecency, the man in black escaped from the elevator again.

Too shameless, too dirty, too terrible.

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Really, we shouldn't regard the world as hell, but we shouldn't regard the world as Eden either.

Sin never stops. Our preventive measures will never stop.

Many times, because of weakness and beauty, girls will become the most wanted targets of gangsters.

You will be in danger when you walk at night;

You will encounter danger when staying in a hotel, and the other party also says that you are his wife. This is a family matter, so let outsiders stay out of it.

Even if you stay at home well, you will encounter dangerous or even irreparable experiences.

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In 20 15, a murder case occurred in Linyi city.

The deceased was a young girl. She died in her rental house.

When the police arrived, they found:

"A young girl is lying on the ground with more than ten wounds on her head. Her temples, back of her head and face are like being stabbed by sharp objects. "

He was taken to hospital and died.

A youth came to an abrupt end.

Why was she killed?

For no reason, just because I live alone, I was targeted by the murderer.

Previously, the criminal suspect in this case found that the girl lived alone in the rental house after several days of observing.

So she was targeted.

He bought a screwdriver, pried open the girl's door and robbed the house.

During the robbery, the girl struggled and claimed to call the police.

The murderer took out a screwdriver and stabbed the girl in the head until 2 1. The girl stopped moving, so he found 700 yuan to escape.

Because of 700 yuan, he committed suicide. It's tragic. It's worthless.

While sighing, we still have to face the reality.

The reality is that evil is everywhere and the ugliness of human nature is inevitable.

You can't let them disappear, so we must try our best to prevent and protect ourselves.

The self-protection of girls living alone is nothing more than a few principles:

Don't let others think that you live alone.

Don't let others get your personal information easily.

There are necessary self-protection measures, don't let the danger come, there is nothing you can do.

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According to the above principles, we extract our life, which is:

1. Don't write the specific room number or your specific name on the express and take-away addresses.

If your name is Zhang San, write "Daniel Wu" on the recipient of the express delivery;

If your name is Li Si, write "Takeshi Kaneshiro" on the recipient of the takeaway.

In the future, even if your address is leaked, the other party will harass you and say:

"Daniel Wu, can I go to your house and give you a hug? “

The courier address has been found.

Then you can tell each other:

"I'm sorry, my boyfriend Takeshi Kaneshiro in Daniel Wu is at home, so don't bother. “

In order to make the above lies more like the truth, you must do some preparatory work.

Put men's slippers at the door and hang one or two men's shirts on the balcony.

2018 February, a gangster in Suzhou found that women's clothes were always hung on the clothes rack in the next unit, and none of them belonged to men or children.

So I decided that this is the home of a woman who lives alone.

That night, he opened the door next door with a card.

The female neighbor was sleeping at that time. Worried about the struggle of his female neighbor, he tied her hands and feet with a network cable and a telephone line.

Then force her to say the bank card password and take away cash, ID cards and other things.

Sometimes, we think that some small details that are not surprising may bring us disaster or help us avoid crisis.

Therefore, the details can not be ignored.

If you can protect yourself, do it.

In addition, you can order double take-out, close the curtains at home, find suspicious people in the elevator, and pretend to call your husband, "Husband, I'll be home soon!"

3. Girls usually bring a bottle of anti-wolf spray in their bedroom and carry-on bag.

If you can't buy a wolf spray, make it yourself.

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Add alcohol, Chili powder, pepper powder and mustard into the spray bottle, the hotter the better, the finer the powder, then let it stand for a few days, filter out the residue, add a few drops of essential oil, and cover it and carry it with you.

If you meet a gangster and look him in the eye, I will spray, I will spray, I will spray ... This is sour and refreshing. I can't believe it.

Alcohol can also be replaced by water+washing powder.

Of course, alcohol is more deadly because it volatilizes.

Friendly reminder: Pay attention to yourself when using it. Don't spray it in the wind and don't hurt yourself.

4. If possible, get a dog.

For girls who live alone, dogs can be said to be the best companions.

I saw a case in Zhihu before.

A girl lives alone and keeps a dog. One night, her door was open. The puppy barked, but she didn't know what it meant and ignored the puppy. Therefore, the dog who always sleeps with her is not reconciled. It was in the living room, curled up on the ground and slept in the direction of the door all night.

The next morning, the girl discovered last night's crisis.

Dogs faithfully protect their owners in this silent way.

5. Get the phone number of the neighbor's house and the phone number of the community safety office.

If possible, get the phone numbers of neighbors and community security guards.

They are the people who can get to the scene as soon as possible to help you.

Using black technology

Use some self-service applications to enter emergency contacts, which can be triggered with one click.

In addition, you can also buy some small alarm pendants.

In short:

Don't show off your wealth, don't leave traces everywhere, don't reveal too much personal information about yourself, don't change locks when renting a house, don't trust others too much, don't pay attention to men who ask for help at night, and don't be too alienated from relatives and friends.

Life is a long series full of suspense.

You don't know which episode, there will be a plot reversal, which will hurt and infringe on you.

You never know which chapter will be cornered by the wicked.

Since we are full of unknowns, we can't let our guard down.

What we have to do is remind ourselves that evil people exist; Hold the border and be kind to others.

Remind the former, because we want to be born human, and all of us can grow up safely.

Remind the latter, because we want to live affectionately in this fickle world. In this malicious world, we still walk gently, live and love gracefully.