How to get rid of the virgin plot?

Dear brothers, today, after diving and browsing the posts for N days as a passerby, I finally want to say a few words about similarities and differences.

First of all, I think I'll just talk about my own real experience. I am 38 years old, a doctor of biomedicine from a famous university in China, and now I am the boss of a biopharmaceutical company.

I was born in a scholarly family, and I received a traditional education since I was a child, and I always followed the concept of position in my bones. My first girlfriend was my classmate in college. She is not the best beauty. I caught up with her without much effort. By the way, my height is 183cm, and my image should belong to the two brothers. At my strong request that year, we did it on Valentine's Day. It was the first time for her, and I was ecstatic. Who knows, my gloomy life has just begun.

From then on, she became arrogant and always threatened me on this basis, telling me that I was responsible for her, but she began to give me the cold shoulder. Before she was gone, I was in pain, and it gradually developed into a nightmare at night, and my academic performance began to decline. In this way, she broke up with me when she came back from her internship on the grounds that she was tired of my boring life and said a bad word about me. Remember, you will always owe me.

I was depressed for a whole year. I can't figure out why a woman who gave me her precious virginity for the first time would do such a thing. Am I doing something wrong, or am I thinking wrong? Didn't I tell you that virgins are safe? I went to see her later. At first, she just said that she was too busy to see me. Later, she simply stopped answering my phone and texted me that she and her boyfriend are fine now.

She is my school sister. Not too beautiful, but still pure and intellectual. She told me that I was her first boyfriend and I believed her. Joy made me forget my past depression, and happiness began to go to my head. At my request, we had sex. Seeing the pink flowing out from under her body, I was relieved and thought I had won the grand prize. Who knows, terrible things followed.

When I was in the third year of graduate school, I was too busy with my thesis and probably gave her a little cold shoulder. She just said that she was busy, but I didn't expect that a man who claimed to be her ex-boyfriend came to see me.

We sat opposite each other. He told me that they talked together for four years, and then he was sent to work abroad for two years. During this time, I didn't hear any news from her. I didn't know until I came back that … I was beaten with a stick. Didn't she say I was her first man? He paused and said that the reason why I couldn't let her go was because she gave me the first time …

Brothers, can you imagine my reaction at that time? I want to find a place to hide. She lied to me. Her membrane is fake. I went to see her, she said coldly, you smelly men drove me. I said, why can't you see your face? She smiled. You men think you're smart. You think you can tell. Can't I pretend? My eyes went black and I fell to the ground.

Later, she went abroad with no one. Before leaving, she called me and said to me, You know, your virgin complex hurt you and you lost your true love. I love you, but I do it because I know you like it. I don't want to lie to you. Because I love you, I have come this far. I am very happy with you. I have never thought of any man …

After that, I became silent. Under the order of my tutor, I continued to study for my doctorate. Just then, my life took a turn for the better and she appeared.

She is a girl from other places, and she came here alone to work hard. We met online. The first time I saw her, I almost choked. That kind of noble temperament and big eyes, I think this kind of appearance is the kind of woman I want.

But I dare not do it, because I have been hurt by those two ugly women, and this …

But I really can't resist her charm. On a romantic night, we watched the newly released disc in my lab. After that, we naturally did it there …

This is not her first time. I'm a little bored. I thought we wouldn't have a result, because I couldn't get rid of worldly and previous injuries, but a miracle happened. My neglect and pervert didn't make her hysterical. On the contrary, she is very kind to me. I was a poor student at that time, and she had no money and her salary was not high, but she kept saving money to support me, bought me books and clothes, and came to our dormitory to wash my clothes and socks, thus raising me.

But at that time, I didn't regard her as my lifelong companion, and I kept flirting outside. Actually, I'm not a playboy. I'm just worried that she will leave me one day because men think nothing is reliable.

But she didn't say anything, but she still loved me silently. After seeing many girls, I finally know that she is really hard to get. In the words of my classmates, it is a blessing to look good and have a good personality. I always lose my temper with her because of such a trivial matter, and she always puts up with it silently. Later, I learned that her ex-boyfriend emigrated and abandoned her.

After graduation, after contradictions, I decided to marry her, a woman who really loves me. I took her hand and walked into the sacred palace of marriage, and lived happily until now. Now, we have a pair of children. To outsiders, we are immortal couples, and I am really happy. She is now a stay-at-home wife, and her children have inherited her mother's beauty. Under her education, her grades are as good as mine.

Having said that, I think what I mean is clear to everyone, and the true holiness is always in my heart.

Yes, we ask all of us to have a woman, but I believe there is such a terrible woman, which is absolutely dialectical, but after all, it is a minority. Most girls are still pure in personality and soul after losing their virginity. If I stubbornly adhere to the ideological tone of that year, then I think I must have lost my last chance to be happy.

Here, I also want to say a few words to those stubborn brothers:

First of all, you didn't go to the movies with your girlfriend. What you want is true love. If you are really possessive, find a woman whose hands have never been touched …

Secondly, I saw many buddies advocating that they must find a virgin, and what's more, they wrote a lot of words to criticize the wrong places. What I want to say is that this will make many brothers who have no opinions lose themselves and even break up many beautiful marriages. Don't be so extreme. We really need to find a perfect person, but is there really a perfect person?

Third, I saw some people say that sperm will leave DNA in the uterus, and I even said that there are medical arguments. I laughed at the sky. As an expert, I tell you it's impossible. Everyone knows that the endometrium falls off during the uterine cycle, and DNA is not so magical. Only radiation can change genes. You got it? Have you ever seen blood suspicion? Hehe;

Fourth, please really cherish the girl who is with you. No matter where she is, as long as she gives you true love, they won't remember the first man. They only have you in their hearts, and good people are still the majority.

Fifth, please be careful when urging others' buddies. Breaking up others will do you no good. I won't do anything that harms others and does not benefit myself. I've done too many bad things. Beware of ghosts knocking at the door in the middle of the night … the baby in your bed may be a movie …

Sixth, the definition of responsibility is to be responsible for feelings, not the movie. Virgins will dump you hard, and other places will love you and be loyal to you.