I sent more than 20 messages to my girlfriend in one night, telling her to die, of course, because she is unreasonable (she often does), and now she is lukewarm to me. ...

Since' I love her very much', why did I send more than 20 messages to my girlfriend in one night, telling her to die? !

It seems that you two are really bored and tired when you get along. .

Self-reflection, each side checks its own shortcomings, and then makes more self-criticism. Men are particularly demanding about their posture. First, he should be himself, take the initiative to care for her, be considerate of her, take care of her, love her and help her. . You are good to her, and she should be good to you. Feelings are cultivated by both sides for a long time. .

If everyone just asks the other party to pay for themselves and ask the other party to cater to themselves without finding out the reasons for the shortage and making efforts and efforts, then both parties will be very tired. .

Mutual understanding, understanding and tolerance are necessary, and mutual respect is indispensable. .

If you really love each other, communicate well and take care of yourself.