A letter to a divorced wife?

When your marriage is completely over and you are ready for divorce, write a letter to your wife to convey what you want to say. The following is a letter to the divorced wife. Welcome to read it.

A letter to a divorced wife

Wife:

I want to change my number. I was bored at the moment, and I didn't mean anything else. I'm not a man, and I know it will make you look down on me even more. But sometimes it is unpleasant to think about my daughter and you. You asked me to call you again in two years, and I certainly won't. I'm not that naive, and I won't wait 16 years like Yang Guo and other little dragon girls.

I felt your indifference yesterday. I've said everything I can for so many days, and I've always wanted to keep you. I don't know why you did it. Maybe you see through me, too. It's really useless Maybe you think face and self-esteem are more important than anything else. I also realized that I can't underestimate anyone, including you. At the beginning, I owed you something morally. If not, we wouldn't be here today. Stay with me. I have high demands on you. I hope you can help me in my career in the future. At the same time, I think there is also a face problem. I can't take my wife out and say that she is a junior high school student, can I? So I train you to go to an amateur university. I hope you can keep pace with me and we will advance and retreat together. When I transfer you to this company, I will consider it a success. But at this time, my attitude towards you is still the same as before. This is my biggest mistake. I didn't take care of your feelings and self-esteem. As I said when I apologized, I feel that you have grown up and have your own thoughts. I will never hit you again. I won't hit you. This is what I really think. I love face so much that I don't need an irrelevant person to pity me. I am a man. I'm hurt. I'll smooth it myself Don't worry.

There is no other meaning in saying these words. Sometimes I feel that I have too little communication with you. We used to be together. You told me that my work is not good, that's not good. I comforted you at first. I don't suppose you don't remember? Too many times, I feel a little bored and think you are going to grow up. There are things that others can't help you, such as work. Some jobs are different in nature, and you can't help if you want to. I just want to teach you the principles and methods of dealing with things and how to deal with them next time. I admit, I have bad breath. For example, the last time the boss asked you to make a promise, I asked you, did you agree? You ran away, you said you wouldn't promise, and you misunderstood me. Actually, you said you promised. Can I still make you break your promise? When people go out to work and make friends, they trust each other. If a person always makes you doubt, and you are the boss, will you reuse him? No one is infallible and no one is perfect. Me too. I have made mistakes, such as shipwrecks. I can't escape the leadership responsibility. I am not directly responsible. I admit my mistake. Didn't the boss mean anything else?

Didn't he let me go to work after the Chinese New Year? But the main reason is that I have lost trust in him and my loyalty has decreased. So I went to this unit again. I also want to show my skills and make great achievements here. I didn't expect anything to happen to you at this juncture. I am angry and hate. I'm not calm enough about it, and I can't calm down. If you don't explain to me, I'll keep pushing you out I thought I could really calm down? But I was wrong. My mind is still full of you and Tong Tong. You said you couldn't sleep at night, so did I. I'm sleeping very lightly now, for two or three hours at most, and I'm easily woken up. Poor sleep has also caused my temper to become more and more violent. But at these times, I think I can control my temper and adjust my mood. Sometimes letting go is also a kind of love, and I know it. But we got married and had children. Your idea is immature. You said that many people advised you not to divorce. Do you think they are malicious? Including your parents. They can only say that they love you more and don't want you to be wronged. They don't want you to get divorced either. If you insist on this, they can only listen to you. To tell the truth, I don't want to leave for the sake of the children and you.

You want freedom, you think everything outside is beautiful, you haven't had enough fun, you want a colorful life. But you still lack a sense of responsibility. I didn't say not to let you go. Grasp a degree, some bottom lines can not be touched. Sometimes you can't tell who is really good to you and who is fake to you. Your discrimination is too poor. You will feel very happy when others praise you three times. This man really knows me. But sometimes men compliment or care for no reason? Your post on the internet understands your lover. You think this is pure love. The feeling you want, don't have sex, don't destroy the family. This is the principle. But when we meet, things will not develop as you think, but I can also help. The development direction and trajectory are the same, just a matter of time. You like to play, so do I, and I play games, but it doesn't cost much. Besides, it costs a lot of money to go out and play, but we need money to support our families and buy a house. You said sometimes you don't have to spend money. The more you owe others, the more uneasy your conscience is. When you can't afford it, you may degenerate and entrust yourself to him.

Sometimes what you owe is not necessarily money, but also feelings, a word of concern and comfort. As far as karma is concerned, what is owed is always paid back. When we are together, we don't cherish each other. That's all that matters. We hurt each other and sometimes think we will kill each other. Didn't you say you wouldn't come back even if I knelt down and begged you? I also said a lot of things that hurt you on the Internet. Maybe we're both scarred. I have a feeling, and I also tell you that quarreling is a process of mutual harm, and there is no need to fight to the death. During this time, I feel that I have grown a lot and felt a lot. Don't tell too many lies when two people are together. Lying is tiring. In order to prove one lie, you have to make up another, so you are very tired and stressed, and you are afraid that the lie will be exposed one day. Sometimes simplicity is the most effective. To tell the truth, sometimes someone will forgive you in some cases, but be sincere. Don't let others misunderstand. When you explain, you must explain, which is very important for work or feelings.

You are willful, maybe you think that your face and self-esteem are more important to be recognized by others. And the idea of us adults is that our own happiness is the most important, and everything else is empty. Divorce does affect children, but when you have to, I think I'll take my daughter with me. I will teach her the truth of being a man, know how to love, know how to respect and know how to stand on her own feet. I don't think she will be too headstrong, she will be very good, and I won't hit her. Others say that her daughter is very close to her father. Think again for your daughter's sake. Is divorce worth it?

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The second part of the letter to the divorced wife

Ping:

Are you okay? Please allow me to call you that for the last time.

Today is July 7th. I haven't seen you for a long time, and I don't know how you are. I know you are avoiding me now, and I don't want to see you or talk to you, but there is something I still want to tell you!

How time flies! It's been almost seven years since I realized this. My son is five years old. Now he is sensible and has grown up. Looking back on the days together in recent years, there are happiness and sweetness, bitterness and tears, and there are also many troubles.

Arguing. It will all be over soon, and you will leave me, leave this house, and leave our son.

I know it's largely my fault for this ending. It's because I didn't communicate with you well, and all this stems from our understanding from the beginning, and we didn't understand your carelessness in some things We didn't know each other at first,

I don't know what we need, what we like and what kind of life we want, but now that we know each other, it's all over, leaving only three lonely figures and three broken hearts. I thought I was

In the days to come, we will gradually get to know each other and merge with each other, but in the end, we will get this ending today! When two people want to make up for it, they find that neither of them has any ability, and neither of them can satisfy the other!

You and I have both made mistakes before, causing minor injuries to each other. In the end, these small mistakes converge into an irretrievable big mistake, and we try to remedy it but find that we are unable to remedy it.

At this point, you and I have nothing to say and don't want to say it! Anyway, I still want to thank you for your care and happiness over the years, although it has been said in the past! The most important thing is to have a son, who is what you and I used to be.

Witness of happiness and love! Thank you for tolerating my stubborn temper and bad character over the years. After all this, I am trying to forget the days when you and I quarreled, were angry and contradicted. Try to remember the bits and pieces of you and me together.

Sweet, remembering bits and pieces of happiness and beautiful life, but all the memories are disappearing little by little in lonely nights and gradually blurred tears. I tried my best to catch everything, but I found my hands empty! How about this?

You said I caused it myself, and now I admit whatever you say!

My parents gave me everything, gave me everything, without my parents, there would be no me now, without everything! And my sister is my only concern, and the only closest person except my wife and children when my parents are old enough to leave us, so you

Let me leave my parents and drive my sister away. I can never live alone. It's a shame for heaven and earth and for one's conscience! Besides, it is not their fault or their provocation that caused today's situation.

Sometimes it's because of you and me. If two people's hearts are really together, all people and things will not separate us, but will only bring the two hearts closer! Growing up, my eldest sister gave me too much. She bought me food and clothes.

Including the help I have given our family now, I can't repay it! You have sisters, you have brothers, you have parents and now you have children. Think for yourself. If you ask you to meet your requirements, you can't, don't say you can't.

One day, when you really get there, what will your heart be like! Think more about the hatred of others. There is no point in living! There are only cruel children in the world, but no cruel parents! I always thought so!

Well, let's not talk about those sad things. You don't want to talk to me now. I won't bother you from now on. I just hope to see my son more often in the future. He really misses you! How much she wants you to teach him to study at night.

Teach him to read, encourage him, put him to sleep, tell him stories and teach him a lot! Now he is spoiled in the arms of his parents, and the mistakes made by you and me have turned his beautiful childhood into gray and lost the right to spoil forever!

Thought of here tears in my eyes, see these I know your heart is not the taste! Come and see him more often in the future. He doesn't need you to buy him anything or toys. All he needs is your encouragement and a ...

A hug, a kiss is enough!

I haven't bought you anything decent in all these years of marriage. I didn't buy you a bunch of flowers. Today is Tanabata. I ordered you a bunch of roses. Although it is late, it is also my gratitude, guilt and apology. Let it be.

Represents my sincere heart now! If you don't say anything, you will get bored. Finally, I said: I'm sorry, I really loved you!

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Letter to divorced wife Part III

Wife:

Today, tomorrow, I am your ex-husband. When I really realized that my marriage was going to end irretrievably, I couldn't sleep for a long time last night, and the pain was unbearable. After all, it is not easy to let go after loving deeply.

I've thought it over. Divorce is not an easy thing from all kinds of objective real life levels, from the social perspective, from interpersonal communication, from both parents, and even from our newly formed small family. I don't want to come to this situation. I feel guilty and sorry for the harm that this situation has brought to you and your parents' family.

I am a man and should be generous. I admit that I haven't done enough, but I'm not useless. I know you. Since we met, I have learned your character from your words and deeds, your way of dealing with people and your style of doing things, and analyzed the causes and roots of irreconcilable contradictions between us.

First, you can't control your emotions. You will be angry simply because of some trivial things that don't need to be argued. For example, the incident in your grandmother's studio is not just a trivial matter of looking at the car. No matter how rude the old lady is, she just wants to make some money. You are an adult, not a child. The fierce language of two people almost got into a fight, no matter whether the starting point of this matter is right or wrong. In short, people around you who don't know the reason will always think that you are a little girl who is not sensible and has no role there. The more you care, the less graceful you are. Some things are even wrong, provided that you don't lose anything. You are not messing with others, you are messing with yourself. I didn't hug you that day, and the old man and the young man had a terrible quarrel. Even if you are right, what will happen if you win the quarrel? People around you will think you did the right thing, right? Are you the winner? It's also the old lady who hasn't seen much of the world. In case the old lady is seriously ill or falls to the ground on purpose, the hospitalization expenses, medical expenses and all kinds of expenses are unbearable. Not that I can't afford it. I think it's really unnecessary. At that time, you couldn't get away at all.

Women should be generous, smart and talented, which you have not done.

Your personality belongs to the intense type.

Your goal in character strengths is firm, and no one can shake it. You have a great desire, easy to lose yourself and a strong desire for control. You think you should have absolute control over what belongs to you, and you have a strong manipulation psychology. On the surface, you look calm and kind, but in fact, you are alert, aggressive, vengeful and impatient, and you turn against me whenever something doesn't make sense, so I still don't understand what's going on. Your mood turned 360 degrees, which made me not at all.

I have been tolerating you and accommodating you. I have been living in a cowardly role. I am willing to sacrifice for you and my family, but I also want the bottom line and dignity. The quarrel that day was in front of the villagers, your aunt, your parents and the doctor. You reached out to slap me, but fortunately you hid quickly and only knocked out your glasses. Have you ever thought that this is in your home, in front of your clinic, and I'm not afraid of shame? ! You're not afraid that your family doesn't want to see this, are you? What you do belongs to the category of domestic violence. You have many tricks, threats and persecution. Today, I think about my personal safety. Don't you dare take a kitchen knife with your husband. Your mood has deteriorated to the extreme, which is irreversible. I'm afraid I'll be scared every day in the future. I really don't live like a man. I'm very tired. I don't ask anything too much of you. I am on your side. I'm scared!

I admit my mistake to you. In our relationship, you are absolutely strong, and I am depressed and inexplicable, and I can't get rid of it. Get a few cheap words at most. My cynicism was not intentional, nor was it intentional. I was just releasing my repressed negative emotions.

You don't know me!

In fact, there is an aggressive and absolute ruler hidden in your heart, which makes me avoid it. I don't know when you will stop treating me with those attitudes and practices. I really wanted to avoid you, but I did, and I tolerated my cowardice. Can these really solve the problem? The answer is no! I was conquered by you. It's endless. There's nothing I can do. I have begun to indulge you, which is the beginning of my losing you. Do you remember what I told you?

I will lose you because I love you. Who wants to be kicked around like a ball? This time, I really can't do it. I can't help it, really.

Every time we quarrel, I have problems. My attitude is to tolerate you and even beg you, but I am so stupid. People of your character can't exchange my weakness for your forgiveness and sympathy again and again. We have really come to an end. My infinite tolerance for you is the reason for losing you. I know this very well, but I can't change you. This is my most painful thing. I must let you know where my bottom line is, where I can't touch it, and explain to you reasonably that we are all wrong in some things, and we all have inappropriate words and behaviors. We have no opportunity or time to discuss and solve it. We were fooling around all day, and things broke out and ended our marriage.

Sometimes I try to understand you. I know you have suffered setbacks and misfortunes before, and I understand your regret that you are not together. I'm sure he likes you too, but I'm different from him in one thing. He had an affair and cheated you. This is his irresponsibility. I'm not like him. I have no such deeds for you to explore. I don't have any evidence to prove that I am unclean with other women. This man said I was your husband, not your boyfriend. Are you ignorant or stupid? Please don't punish me for his mistake. I am innocent.

I don't have any privacy, so forget it, but you are not satisfied. You always want to find fault with me. Don't you think your behavior is unbearable for anyone? Actually, at this moment, I wonder if you have someone outside. You're performing with me. You're getting back at me.

In fact, every woman is vain, and so are you. I understand, but there are some things you are really proud of yourself. You have mistakes and problems, and you refuse to admit them. I found that I wanted to give you a positive correction, but you refused to accept it. You absolutely refused to admit that someone was wrong with you. You are stupid. Will I bully you more if you bow in front of your husband? You are strong, don't give up there. This is a good thing. But there must be good control and treatment methods. However, your attitude towards marriage and me is strong. You are so powerful that I have no choice. You value yourself too much. You show a strong desire. It doesn't just mean you dress up and make up. You want to be attracted and held, but there's nothing wrong with that, is there? However, no one is willing to tolerate this character except your parents.

I am tired!

I don't know if you will look at these things or just throw them aside. I'm completely disappointed in you! Give up completely! I am a man! It's a man! Stop crying and please relax! I've been through what I asked myself, and I can't do it. Let's draw a full stop

If there is no one else in your heart, it will be very helpful for your parents to see it!

I'm not criticizing you, I have no obligation, I just want to be responsible for you for the last time!

XXX

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