Why do girl boyfriends get angry when they return messages late?

Because girls have no confidence in themselves or each other. Send a message to our parents when they can't come back, and we won't feel anxious, because we know that they love us whether they come back or not. But if you don't have enough confidence in yourself or your partner, it's likely that he didn't reply to me-did he not love me enough or care about me enough? It is important to improve self-confidence. Girls with self-confidence and independent personality will not bother themselves and each other for such a trivial matter.

Girls want each other to come back in seconds, because in the pursuit period or love period, boys usually pay more emotional attention than usual in order to win the heart of the goddess, which has made girls feel dependent. When playing games, I will put my mobile phone on the side of the computer or on my lap, and set a special message prompt for the goddess, for fear that I will miss or reply to the other party's message too late.

Of course, girls know this mentality of boys, so they use this to satisfy their teenage hearts and hope that the other party can return to their side in a second. This proves that the other person likes himself very much, proves that the other person loves me, and is immersed in and enjoying this satisfaction. Girls with this mentality are extremely insecure and will be accompanied by self-doubt and negative inertia thinking.

Once in an intimate relationship, the demands on the other party are very high, and the second return is the ultimate performance of high demands. But they don't realize that what they need may not be each other. They may just need a second robot, Komori and siri. The satisfaction of this kind of emotional value is bubble-like, generally speaking, it will drop sharply after the love period. If two people maintain such intimacy for a long time, the pressure on each other will be very great, and it is easy to avoid problems and not solve them.

In fact, what girls are angry about is not the late news, but the unreasonable late news. For me, if my girlfriend hasn't heard from me for four or five hours, I'm more worried about her than angry, isn't it? So every time I can't reply to the news, I will tell the other party in advance, for example, "I have to report the project at two o'clock and finish at around four o'clock." It may be inconvenient to reply to your message during the period, and I will tell you when it is over "and" I went running, and I finished running at about 10: 30 ".