I called my mother-in-law to borrow money to buy a house. When I finished, she forgot to hang up. When I heard her talking to her father-in-law, I became a tearful person. Why?

Buying a house is the goal of many young people, but now that the house price is getting higher and higher, it is even more difficult for young people to have a home of their own.

Therefore, under such circumstances, you will want to ask the elderly for help and hope that the elderly can support you.

Actually, I didn't want the old man to take money for nothing. I just wanted to borrow a little, but I will return it to the elderly in the future, because it is not easy for the elderly to save money all their lives. After all, the conditions of the elderly at home are only working-class people, and they don't do big business like others.

So I wanted to buy a house at first, and then I decided to borrow money from the old man. Then I called my mother-in-law and told her what I thought. When I was about to hang up, I found that my mother-in-law forgot to hang up, and then I heard what my father-in-law said.

I always thought my in-laws had savings at home. When I first met my husband, I knew that my in-laws had been working in the enterprise before retirement, so I felt that the old couple had savings.

Especially when the two of us got married, the family asked for a bride price of 65,438+10,000 yuan, and then the in-laws agreed.

Later, when I went back to my parents' house, my mother reminded me that your in-laws must have some money. You can ask them if you encounter any difficulties in the future. If we don't look for them, the money may be given to their daughter in the future.

At that time, when my husband and I got married, we all lived with our in-laws, but because the in-laws' home was too far away from where we worked, we had to get up early every day. It's almost 8 o'clock when I get home from work at night, and I feel that I have no time to myself every day.

Later, we decided to rent a house in the unit, so that we don't have to work so hard every day.

Because it was almost impossible to buy a house at that time, because the house was really expensive and we had no savings, so we had to rent a house to live in.

In life, my in-laws take good care of us. My husband and I live in a rented house. When my in-laws have time, they will come and cook us some delicious food, and then they will help us clean up the house.

Usually, we get some household food or buy food for us, so our life is much easier.

Every time they come, they will fill our refrigerator, and there is never less chicken, duck and fish.

Then he bought us clothes to wear. In my heart, I am really grateful to meet such a good father-in-law

So at that time, I always thought that my in-laws should have good conditions, otherwise how could I be so willing to spend money for us?

When Xiao Yan got married, her in-laws also gave him 65,438+10,000 yuan, saying that she wanted a bowl of water to be flat. At the beginning, my son gave 65438+ 10,000 yuan as a bride price, so my daughter should also give 65438+ 10,000 yuan as a dowry when she got married, so that her daughter can have a decent scenery.

So when I saw this place, I felt that the old couple should have a deposit.

So if that's the case, why don't I find some to buy a house?

Then I discussed it with my husband. Our efforts in recent years have also saved 200,000 yuan, but your down payment is still more than 10 million, so I just want to talk to the elderly and ask them to help solve the remaining down payment.

In this way, my husband and I began to look at the house outside. Later, we really saw a house we liked, so we thought of calling my mother-in-law and telling me what we thought.

My mother-in-law didn't say anything after hearing our idea of buying a house, but told me that they would find a way. At that time, I was still very happy to hear it. I put down my mobile phone when I was ready.

But at this time, I found that my mother-in-law seemed to forget to hang up. On the phone, she told her father-in-law that we needed to buy a house, and we still needed hundreds of thousands.

Then the mother-in-law went on to say that after her daughter got married, all the savings at home were spent, but now the child wants to buy a house, and then she also told us. There are some difficulties. Let's see how to solve them.

My father-in-law said at this time that if that really didn't work, I would borrow it from my relatives.

Then my father-in-law also said that there was a project in two days, and I should be able to find a job and ask him to work slowly in the field for a few years to pay off the money.

My mother-in-law went on to say, otherwise I will follow you to live in the dormitory of the construction site in the future. In this case, our house will be vacant and can be rented out. This is also a sum of money, and it will be faster to pay off debts in the future.

After listening to these words, I was very unhappy, and then I left tears.

I thought my in-laws should be very rich, but I didn't expect this to happen. It turns out that generosity is just to make our life better.

Love for us, but I don't appreciate it, but I start to push my luck.

I immediately decided not to buy the house. I feel guilty after listening to my in-laws' conversation. Then I looked at the leaflet in my hand, and I tore it up directly.

In the evening, my husband and I got off work. I bought a gift for my mother-in-law and father-in-law, and I hurried back to see it.

When I got home, I told my in-laws that I had a look at the surrounding houses and there was nothing particularly suitable.

So we gave up the idea of buying a house for the time being, so now I don't need money for the time being. At this time, I obviously saw my parents-in-law sighing.

I am very happy to see my in-laws in a better mood.

Later, after I came out from my in-laws' house, my husband and I said that we should be filial to our parents in the future.

My husband doesn't know the phone content, so there is still something puzzling.

In fact, the communication between people is really sincere, whether it is in-laws or husband and wife. If you are kind to me, I will treat you sincerely with 120 points.

Since I got married, my in-laws have always regarded me as my own daughter, and I will definitely regard them as my own parents.

With motivation, there will be progress, and then through their own efforts, finally bought a house of their own. I invited my in-laws to live with us as soon as the house was decorated.

Later, my husband and I also had our own children, and then my in-laws have been helping with them.

I am glad to marry such a family, because the kindness of my in-laws makes me feel that there are another pair of parents in this world.

In life, many people say that there will be contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but there is no such problem in our family, because everyone has an inclusive person, which will naturally resolve many contradictions.

Looking back now, I still feel stupid and unfilial, but fortunately, everything is over.

Finally, I want to say that young people must believe in themselves, and you can achieve what you want through your own efforts. Maybe it's a hard process, but it's all worth it, because this is life and this is your own value.

The old people at home can help you for a while, but they can't help you for a lifetime. You have to work hard on your own. Don't think about relying on the elderly.