How to recover from being hacked by girls?

When many boys fall in love with their girlfriends, they often encounter such a problem, that is, they are blacked out by each other. Some fake breakups may just be coaxed by boys. However, in case we really break up, we need to use the following three points to save it.

First, don't contact each other for the time being.

I strongly want to find each other and ask. In fact, I am persecuting each other, and the way to make up for it will never solve the contradiction between two people.

What you have to do is to reflect on yourself during this time, don't look for each other, analyze where you made emotional mistakes, face up to this love and look at your problems objectively.

Second, it was hacked and frozen.

After breaking up, both sides are in a negative emotional state, and both sides can't solve the problem rationally, so the reason for freezing is to let this negative emotion disappear slowly.

During this time, we must refrain from contacting each other. If we want to disappear, we should be real, reduce our sense of need and divert our attention from each other.

Third, shape a brand-new self.

It is very important to change the status quo now, because the other party has always been disgusted with you, so we are more inclined to attract you for the second time, so that the other party can feel attracted to you again.

For example, you can make your appearance more mature, spend more time at work, read more books to enhance your connotation, exercise to keep a healthy figure and so on. You can do it if you want to.