When you find out that a man has betrayed you, you don't answer the phone or return messages. What kind of mentality is the man?

There may be many kinds of mentality when you find that a man doesn't answer the phone or return the message after betrayal. Here are some possible explanations:

1. escape psychology: men may feel guilty or afraid to face your reaction, so they choose not to answer the phone or return messages to avoid facing your emotions and problems.

2. Control desire: A man may want to control your reaction so that he can keep the initiative in his relationship with the outside world. He doesn't answer the phone or return messages, probably to make you more confused and uneasy.

3. Unwilling to hurt you: A man may not want you to know the fact that he betrayed you because he is worried that you will get hurt. He didn't answer the phone or return messages, probably to delay the time and find a more suitable time and way to tell you the truth.

4. Cold treatment: A man may lose interest in you, or he may enter a new stage. He may not answer the phone or return messages, because he wants to be cold to you and let you know his intentions.

No matter what a man's mentality is when he doesn't answer the phone or return the information, the best way is to communicate with him directly, let him know his thoughts and feelings and express his feelings and needs. If the problem can't be solved, you can consider seeking the help of professionals, such as marriage counselors or psychologists, to help you cope with this situation.