What do you mean by sending a message to a girl and not returning it?

Under normal circumstances, one second she was chatting well, and the next she didn't reply to the message, which means three situations:

1, the girl is not interested in you, and the previous reply was just out of courtesy. I found that you had been pestering her, so I didn't reply at all.

2. The girl is interested in you to some extent, but the topic you provide makes her bored or unable to continue.

There are too many expectations for girls, thinking that she is passionate about girls and she should be passionate about herself. This emotional contrast will amplify your concern for girls. A girl is busy with her own business for a while, and you think she didn't respond to you.

In fact, in most cases, it is the second case. Because of the lack of topics that girls are interested in, girls gradually lose interest in you and don't want to reply.

When a girl doesn't reply to your message, use these five methods to deal with it:

First, don't wait anxiously.

Some men like to get into a dead end, but they still feel quite warm after getting in. If the girl doesn't reply, he will fall into an anxious situation and think about what she is doing. Doing so will only affect your thinking. You care about her so much that you think she is the only one in your heart.

Actually, there is no need to worry. Anxiety and panic will make you do more stupid things. You can do something else to distract yourself.

Secondly, the mentality should be correct.

You must put yourself in the shoes. You're not her boyfriend. Why does she have to reply to your message? Don't do inappropriate things in the wrong place, which will only make her feel that you are unreliable, not good at talking, and a little paranoid and possessive. If a girl thinks you are such a person, then what you do in the future is useless.

Third, think about what to do next.

Don't stop at the step where she doesn't reply to your message, and don't doubt whether she is chatting with others, because she ignores you, which means she doesn't value you. So all you have to do is talk to other girls and never hang yourself from a tree. You know that girls have the right to choose not to reply to you, and you can't blame her.

So your best way is to ignore her, choose your own life and put it aside for a while. Send another message after a while to try her attitude. If you still ignore it, then you don't have to ignore it.

Fourth, ask occasionally.

Men with high emotional intelligence don't send messages mindlessly, but regularly. When a girl ignores you, you should ignore her. What you have to do now is to improve yourself and ask her out once in a while, which is much better than letting girls reply to your message without thinking.

Maybe when you don't send a message, she is also wondering why you don't send a message to her. Such a mind game will give you the upper hand.

Verbs (short for verb) express your attitude.

No cowardice, no humility, no kneeling. You must tell her that you are not waiting for her reply. You have to look at the attitude of girls. If you don't reply to me, I won't talk to you. Maybe girls will think you are a man and can't help looking for you. In short, remember one sentence: don't send messages all the time, this is a big taboo.