After breaking up, my boyfriend said, let's not contact for a while and disappear for a while. What should I do?

After breaking up, my boyfriend said that you should not contact during this time. If you want to disappear for a while, you must accept his thoughts and actions, because two people have broken up and there is really no need to contact again.

To be a qualified predecessor, you must completely disappear from each other's world. None of the predecessors who are still in contact are qualified predecessors. We should be clear about this, and it is also a kind of respect and protection for our future boyfriend and the other party's future girlfriend. At that time, I didn't immerse myself in this failed relationship, full of sadness and pain, and I was able to get out of the shadows as soon as possible and welcome a new life.

In fact, my ex-boyfriend said this mainly because he wanted to get rid of this relationship as soon as possible, fearing that you would entangle and make up, so he said it euphemistically to let you know his attitude. At this time, as a girl, she should be clearly aware of this and accept his behavior. After all, breaking up is breaking up. After breaking up, there is no need for two people to be friends, and there is really no need to contact. It is a very good result to respect yourself, let others go and stop contacting. I have been entangled in my predecessor, and there is no way out of my old life and I will not move towards a new life.

If the other party does not avoid contact after breaking up, the other half will have no quality and personality. They are always self-centered, regardless of other people's feelings, and have no sense of bondage and guilt in their feelings. Everything is based on the realization of your own goals, and you don't care whether you hurt others or make others suffer unsustainable pain. So their boyfriends will have such words and deeds, which is the best ending of your relationship, and it is also for you.