How to refuse others' confession? The more tactful, the better ... the best is poetry.

I don't regret getting wider and wider, and I am haggard for Iraq. "From Liu Yong's Recent Flowers:

It's no problem to lean against a dangerous building. Looking forward to spring sorrow, the sky is dark. In the afterglow of grass and smoke.

Who knows why I lean on the tracks silently? I'm getting drunk. When drinking is a song, strong music is still tasteless.

I don't regret widening my belt. It's worth getting tired for my coquetry.

People who read human words and phrases are most impressed by Wang Guowei's three realms theory:

The great cause of ancient and modern times and the questioner of the university must go through three realms: "Last night, the west wind withered the green trees, and I went to the tall building alone to look at the horizon." So is this first place. "The belt is getting wider and wider, and I don't regret it. I am thin for Iraq. " So is this second environment. "Looking for him in the crowd, I suddenly turned around and the man was there, dimly lit." So is this third place.

These two sentences mean being trapped by love and refusing to let go. Su Shi said: "Those who have achieved great things in ancient times must also have perseverance!" Qu Yuan said: I am also kind at heart. Although I died nine times, I still have no regrets! In Xu Sanduo's words, the process of persistence is: never abandon, never give up.

As a girl, I can't bear to refuse to meet such a affectionate person. It's interesting to answer this question. Girls can be classified according to their status. The reasons for refusing are different, and of course the language used is different.

I can't stand it, but you are late.

You can use Zhang Ji's Yin Jiefu:

My home is connected with the imperial garden, and my husband is on duty in the palace with a halberd. Although I know you are sincere to Lang Lang, I have vowed to share my life and death with my husband.

Return your double beads, my eyes are full of tears, and I regret not meeting you before I got married.

This meaning is ambiguous: my husband is excellent, and so are you. I hate it, but you are late. But in today's era, in this case, it may not be possible to sever the relationship, and there is still the danger of breaking the bond.

Second, I had a lover, but I didn't like you.

You can use the famous saying in Yuan Zhen's Lisi:

Once I tasted the vast sea, I felt that the water in other places was pale; Once you have experienced the clouds in Wushan, you feel that the clouds elsewhere are eclipsed.

The subtext is that although you are affectionate and persistent, I didn't mean to discourage you. You are really not as good as my former lover. Come back and practice.

Three, someone, leave me alone.

This kind of situation is resolutely rejected, and Shang Mo Sang written by Han Yuefu can be used:

You are such a fool! Be your own wife, Luo Fu's own husband! "

You're welcome. It doesn't mean "I hate not seeing you before I get married". A blow to the head, stop dreaming!

Fourth, although I sue quickly, I am not a woman.

This is even more rude. You were affectionate and persistent, but you crossed the line and hurt me. A poem in The Book of Songs:

Although I went to prison quickly, the room was not enough. Although I sue quickly, I don't obey.

In this case, the man used coercion, and the woman flatly refused: even if I was put in prison, you would never marry me! Even if I am sued, I will never marry you!

5. Can you support me?

The singer s self-report in Bai Juyi s Pipa Xing;

She mastered the guitar at the age of thirteen, and her name ranked first in the list of musicians. Song often teaches excellent talents, and her beauty is the envy of all the leading dancers.

I can't count all the songs of how noble young people in Wuling once competed nobly. The silver comb inlaid with shells was broken by her rhythm, and the bloody skirt was stained with wine.

There is a saying here: how did the aristocratic youths in Wuling once compete nobly? A piece of red color disappeared without counting it. Frighten each other: I was not an ordinary person in those days. How many rich second generations are vying to bow down to my pomegranate skirt and support me? Can you do it?

6. I disagree. I don't think my sisters will marry you either

A trip to Princess Hanyu Taiping Villa;

If you want to know how much money you spent in front of you, until Nanshan does not belong to people.

The original intention of this poem is: If you want to know how many flowers and trees are left in front of the villa, all the way to Zhong Nanshan belongs to no one else. This is not your dish, this is a class you can't reach.

This is a little hurtful. With your present conditions, you have no house, no car and no career. I guess everyone will despise you except me. You'd better work hard for a few years before you think about it.

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Now the pressure of life is getting bigger and bigger, and the house price is getting higher and higher. If the family is not very good, most people can't buy a house, a car or a wife by themselves. No wonder some girls "would rather cry in a BMW than laugh behind a bicycle", and some mothers-in-law don't want their daughters to marry a husband who has nothing.

If you don't work hard in your career and pursue love, it's not enough to rely on "clothes are getting wider and wider, and people are haggard." Only by pursuing love and career together can you realize the feeling that "people have been looking for him for thousands of times, and suddenly looking back, that person is there, and the lights are dim". This is what Wang Guowei said: great undertakings and scholars at all times and all over the world must go through three realms.