Do you have to say good morning and good night every day when chasing girls? Can persistence impress girls?

When chasing girls, many boys will struggle to send messages to girls every day, fearing that too many girls will be annoying, too few and too far away. So when chasing girls, do you want to send messages every morning and evening?

Do you have to say good morning and good night every day when chasing girls?

It depends on what stage you are at:

1. The first stage:

Just knowing a girl is a process of breaking strangers and establishing contact. It is enough to talk a few times occasionally, in order to make girls remember you and have an impression on you. You can say good morning and good night to a girl, but you must not send it every day, that is, treat her as an ordinary friend and get along well.

2. Familiarity stage:

After getting familiar with girls, you can talk slowly. At this stage, many people will feel that chatting with girls for too long will make them feel too idle, and chatting for too short will make them feel that girls are not interested. In fact, this is all a sense of need. Chatting is regarded as an easy thing, and chatting for a while will be more speculative.

However, the chat here is not a daily chat, but a topic of interest to a girl. This stage is a process of building a good impression and deepening attraction.

3. The fuzzy stage:

At this stage, we have successfully integrated into the lives of girls, and our relationship with girls is also very close. However, in order to upgrade the relationship with girls, it is necessary to deepen the chat framework, grasp the leading role of chat and test the goodwill of girls. For example, if we chat with her every day for a week, we can suddenly stop looking for her for a day or two, so as to take this opportunity to judge her good feelings for you and whether she will take the initiative to chat with you.

There are also signals that girls are not interested and interested to stimulate their emotions. When a girl is in a good mood, she can also say something ambiguous. If the girl does not explicitly refuse, she can take the opportunity to upgrade her relationship.

Can persistence impress girls?

Not necessarily.

At the beginning, I will tell my brothers who are pursuing girls or want to pursue girls that you must not think that you can impress girls by paying, because attraction is mutual, and your unilateral efforts are only encouraging girls' sense of superiority and deepening your sense of inferiority. At first, your relationship was not equal. And send good morning and good night to girls every day, just like telling girls that I like you, they over-expose their sense of need, lose their own framework, and take the initiative to chat with girls, which is why many boys spend a lot of time returning to you or not.

The process of getting along with girls is actually a process of fighting for a framework. In the early stage, you need to integrate into the framework of girls to establish contact and goodwill, but in the process of getting along constantly, you need to keep your own boundaries, guide girls to pay and export value, let her integrate into your world and master the initiative of chatting.

How to chase girls

1. Be gentle and considerate to her

There is no denying that girls all want to be gently cared for. So, be gentle when you talk to her, and don't be too rude. Think things over. Nowadays, many girls are careless in appearance and can often be moved by the thoughtfulness and tenderness of boys. If you can prepare a coat for her when the temperature drops; Or on holidays, quietly send hot brown sugar water, they will feel very warm, and their goodwill for you will rise rapidly.

When she needed help, she was the first to rush over.

When a girl is in trouble and feels helpless, your appearance is like seeing the sunshine for her. If you can help her, even if it is a small favor, she will be grateful to you, think you are particularly tall, and love will be born in her heart. You know, for girls, whether they like or love, they are all mixed with worship, so what you have to do is to let girls admire and appreciate you from the heart!

3. Help her and try to walk into her heart.

Generally speaking, girls will not open their hearts to you at first, but as long as you are patient and sincere enough, they will slowly let go of their guard and tell you their troubles like confidants. At this time, you should play the role of a good listener and give her some advice to help her untie her heart. In this way, she will gradually regard you as a confidant and feel that you know her very well and rely on you more and more.

4. Give her protection and a sense of security.

Some girls, who have not received enough care since childhood, often feel lonely and insecure when they grow up. For such a girl, you can always care about her, but don't be too deliberate, otherwise it will attract resentment. You can contact her at any time, accompany her to solve loneliness, make her feel that you are the person she can rely on and shelter her from the wind and rain.

Never keep asking her for photos.

When chasing girls, you should know that you should pay as much as possible and do more things for her. It's not fair to chase someone. Only when you give her your heart, girls will feel your sincerity and gradually like you. Don't always ask her for photos. If you think she is a little interested in you, just ask once or twice, not many questions, so that she will think that you just like her appearance, not really love her.

Common misunderstandings in chasing girls

1, focusing on girls, caring too much, spending all your thoughts and time on girls when you are in love or chasing girls, and thinking about girls all the time. When you feel that you spend half your time with a woman, you are not far from losing her.

If you feel uncomfortable, you are eager to upgrade your relationship in language, or touch the girl's body, such as asking some personal questions on the first date and touching your hand.

3, straight thinking, in the initial stage of recognition, impose your own ideas on the other party, such as asking the other party not to spend the night outside, and be sure to give birth to a son for me in the future.

4, quick confession or public confession, girls just care about you politely, fantasizing that girls have a good impression on you. They just said I love you for three days, or they didn't have enough feelings to learn the plot in the TV series, and these people only got the girl's sentence "Are you thinking too much ..."