When people are in love, do men usually send messages to women first or do women send messages to men?

Most women want to send messages to men, but because they are often embarrassed to send messages to boys first, they will feel that they are too active. In order to be reserved, they still want boys to take the initiative to start.

One more thing: girls are often more tolerant of lonely life than boys. If two people miss each other at the same time, boys usually don't make it to the end, so they send messages to girls first.