I kissed the girl I like last night, and she cried. She keeps saying that she has a boyfriend, and she can't do this to him. Shortly after crying, she sent a short message to her mobile phone.

Girls are not looking for the same object as boys. Most girls are not looking for a partner for themselves, but for the next generation, so she should choose the boy she thinks is the best. Your words and deeds may attract her or make her dislike you. Don't look at girls from the perspective of a boy. You just think you like her. You should let the other person recognize you first.