Neighbor upstairs: Do you think our children are noisy? You can live in a villa if you dare.

A friend told me today that there were too many upstairs. Yesterday morning, I started to play English children's songs loudly, and at noon, I switched to adults to watch TV dramas. In the afternoon, the children began to clap the ball and practice the piano, and at eight o'clock in the evening, they began to jump rope. The adults were beating something.

How to stop after ten o'clock at night? As a result, I started washing clothes and sucking the floor at 1 am. My friend said that this is really not afraid to disturb the child's sleep, a night owl.

The next day, I went upstairs, upstairs attitude is very good, but I don't want to change anything:

In this case, friends are also very helpless. People talk about things with their children. What can they do?

In fact, this kind of thing is very common, especially during the recent epidemic, many people stayed at home and their children dropped out of school. If you don't pay attention, it is easy to make noise and leave an impression on your neighbors.

For example, these two families, because the men downstairs failed to communicate several times, threatened with a knife in a rage and were later fined by the police:

There are also children running around upstairs, mopping tables and chairs, and suddenly knocking down toys. This makes the neighbors downstairs very nervous, but the residents upstairs said, "The child is only one year old. What can I do?" So the neighbors downstairs bought a floor shaker in a rage and hurt each other. Finally, the police intervened in the mediation and dismantled the rocking device.

For the above example, although the downstairs neighbor's approach is more radical and has been punished accordingly, netizens still stand on the downstairs side one-sidedly:

Let's not talk about the malicious noise disturbing people at parties, but how children can avoid disturbing people at home.

I especially hope that parents with children at home can have a look. Although this is a special period, some projects are forced by the school, but doing a few more things can avoid conflicts in the neighborhood and prevent children from being labeled as "Xiong Haizi" by others. Otherwise, everyone will be angry with each other, which is not good for children's growth.

Not to mention skipping rope and patting the ball during the epidemic, even before the children go to kindergarten, the home should be covered with sound insulation and shock absorption pads, such as the following:

Paving this mat in the children's play area can ensure that there is almost no sound when the tables and chairs are pulled, and playing with toys and building blocks will not cause sudden "fright" to the neighbors downstairs.

Don't think it's just for the sake of your neighbors and your family;

The key point is that this kind of soundproof pad is especially suitable for reducing the noise caused by sports. If adults and children need indoor sports, you can lay this mat at home. If the sound insulation effect of the building is poor, they can lay two floors or carpets under it, so that the noise will be much less when exercising.

Children in primary school can also use this mat to put it under tables and chairs to reduce the noise of dragging.

Whose children don't know a few specialties now? Many parents want their children to be the second Lang Lang and Lv Siqing in the future, and they have been cultivating various arts since childhood.

To tell the truth, if you don't live in a big villa at home, practicing musical instruments and vocal music will definitely affect others. After all, musicians like Liszt and Chopin don't live in big buildings to practice the piano.

If you have a tendency to develop music for children, you must do a good job of sound insulation when decorating. If you don't consider it when decorating, you should also transform the room when you plan to let your children practice music, and spread sound-absorbing mats on the walls and floors.

In addition, the electric piano is also a good choice. Compared with the traditional piano, it is cheaper, smaller and saves space. The key is to wear headphones without worrying about disturbing the neighbors upstairs and downstairs:

If you can't do the above two aspects, I also advise you to say hello to your neighbors, set a time period for your children to practice the piano, and respect the habits of work and rest between neighbors. I believe most neighbors can understand.

Many reports of children's noise disturbing people are usually due to the movement caused by children running around the house.

First look at your own flooring material:

1. If it is a solid wood floor or a composite floor, the noise may be relatively better. It depends on the child's range of activities, the range of activities, and what material the shoes are made of;

2. If it is a tile or masonry floor, the noise caused to the downstairs will be greater than you feel, because the noise will be amplified between floors. It depends on whether the area where children often move is carpeted or the style of home shoes is changed.

Try to wear slippers or household shoes at home. Don't mix them with the shoes outside. They are neither clean nor easy to make noise. Especially, wear high heels to step on the floor tiles to ensure that the neighbors downstairs are so angry that they want to tear the upstairs. ...

Slippers or household shoes, try to choose soft rubber at the bottom, quiet and non-slip.

Children's shoes should not be too big. If you don't follow your feet, it will really drag your feet.

Parents should also talk to their children and don't run around the house. First, it is easy to get hurt, and second, it will cause great noise to neighbors. Don't use children as an excuse. You can't run around when you are young!

Like the family mentioned in the last case, the neighbor was noisy at the door by the child, but he avoided it, closed the door and was unwilling to communicate, causing the neighbor to raise his knife and kick the door angrily. This is actually very stupid.

Of course, individual cases of neurasthenia are not ruled out, but in many cases, it is definitely unbearable to find it downstairs.

In this case, especially in our family with children, we should first reflect on whether our family is really a little louder or not, instead of making excuses or scolding our neighbors.

Imagine that our neighbors are troubled by noise. Naturally, their attitude may be not very good and a little irrational, but we are in a rational state and should not make things more and more rigid.

Communicate calmly with your neighbors, see what the problem is, and then try to solve it.